i had a affair with my husband co-worker who is black and found out that im three month preganet and i don,t know what to do since im from mexico and i have two little ones with me ! and i don,t know how to tell my kids or my mother in-law.
2007-10-04 07:35:22 · 16 answers · asked by carmen g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't have to say anything to anybody. They will ALL figure it out in 6 months when your half-black baby is born! No words will be necessary at that point! So I hope your fling was worth your marriage and your family. Another fine example of what women do to really screw up their lives. Unbelievable.
2007-10-04 07:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Too many red flags. Especially about the myspace account. Why would he hide it if it wasn't something to have guilt trips about. Part of the fun of being on sites like myspace and facebook is to share them with a special someone. "I'll miss IMing U all day" is a totally giveaway because if the messaging was work-related they would both be really bored from it and would want to minimize it - not have a major love fest with that.
2016-04-07 03:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if you know sugarmommymeet.com and i learned a lot from the site.I think you just had an extramarital affair and the baby is an accident.So you should make an abortion.If the thing is not known by your spouse and your mother in-low what you do is forgetting and do as a wife do.
2007-10-08 00:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the baby comes out and accuse your mother-in-law of having had an affair which resulted in your husband's birth and now those genes that are unique to black men are coming out.
2007-10-04 07:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by K K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, your concern should be how to tell your husband!
Maybe it's still time to get a termination. If not, you'd better come clean to your husband pronto, and if he still wants to give it another go, then together you'll be able to deal with whatever comes next.
If not, then you'll have to talk to your kids and think of finding your next accomodation and definitely talk to this guy who got you pregnant. If anything, it is his responsibility to make sure his child to be has a roof over its head!
2007-10-04 08:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
T is for the Trauma this will cause in your family's life
R is for the Repercussions you're going to experience
A is for the Affair you stupidly undertook
M is for your Morals which seem to be lacking
P is for Pregnant....the proper spelling you'll note.
2007-10-04 07:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you better come clean so your husband can get the kids in the divorce. Sorry but I have no sympathy for cheaters.
2007-10-04 07:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
pack your bags and go back to Mexico. We do not need any more welfare children in this country. Your such a disgrace to your husband Who parable works hard for you. pack your bags and go.
2007-10-04 07:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by tadm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the love of God......you're a disgrace!!! That's sick...cheating on your husband while he's been faithful. Wow!
2007-10-04 07:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Where is the trust in this merrage? I guess you are gana have to pay for your own actions.
2007-10-04 07:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by LILAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋