If her hymen is intact then that is a pretty safe bet she is, but most women who are still virgins have already broken their hymen through masturbation or riding a horse, bike, athletics etc.
If she told you she is, then it is probably true, since being a virgin has little significance anymore like it once did.
It shouldn't matter if you love her, if it does then you may not love her as you should to be married.
2007-10-04 06:38:04
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answered by rumbler_12 7
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Some people would determine their wife's virginity status by simply looking to see if their hymen is torn or intact. However, many women, particularly Middle Eastern women, have been going around having sex with all the "studs" and womanizers while ignoring the nice guys, but then, when the time comes to get married and settle down with a nice virgin guy, they wrongfully decide to have a hymen reconstruction. And so on the wedding night, the virgin man gets married to his wife, thinking that she's a virgin, but instead she's done a lot of sl*ty things with another man or other men. (If you want my personal opinion, I think that what those women are doing to their husbands is pure evil; and when I say "evil," I mean that literally.)
The only way to determine whether or not your wife is a virgin is by simply asking her. If she lies, you'll eventually find out, and then the marriage will start to decline.
2007-10-04 07:12:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Sure is , you break of hypen it bleeds and you can hardly do anything the first because of tightnness, The bleeding even if her peroid was only 2 weeks ago, the first intercourse will start the peroid all over again , it will stay that way. Women that say, " I didn't bleed I like it the first time " , Is not a virgin they bleed and it hurts real bad , you have soreness. I have had men tell me, my wife didn't bleed the first time, then your wife is not a virgin.
2007-10-04 06:45:46
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answered by Nicki 6
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Ask her. If you can not do that, your marriage is doomed even before it starts. Also, what difference does it make. Does it make more or less of a person? Did you not fall in love with her? Go back and change anything you want in your past, then you are not the person standing there now. Maybe not even standing there. Ever think of that? Every one is the sum of all their education and experience to date.
2007-10-04 06:59:24
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answered by bootsontheroad 6
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I respect that there are various cultures that feel this is important, but in today's day in age, if you can't ask her and trust her and still love her if she is not, I believe you really need to look at your priorities in life and evaluate if the sheer thought alone isn't too petty for the fraction of a second that we get to live on this planet.
2007-10-04 06:54:29
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answered by OrganicDominick 2
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If she is a virgin you will feel the hymen break. Some women spot when for a couple of hours afterwards. It will most likely hurt her a little. But the easiest way would be to ask her.
2007-10-04 06:34:15
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answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4
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well you have done married her what difference does it make. and if you and her cant talk about these kind of things you shouldn't have married her...when you marry someone you both should have talked enough to each other to know everything there is to know about one another...unless your from some other country where you don't see bride till that day...and if that's the case it don't matter if she id virgin or not you don't have no choice anyways....but really getting to know some is what you should do before you marry them not after.
2007-10-04 06:39:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Should have asked her before you married her. If you don't believe her then why did you marry her? Marriage without trust is doomed from the get go...
2007-10-04 06:43:23
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answered by kitkat 7
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Ya did u have boring lame just lay there sex the 1st time like she didn't know what she was doing?? If so its possible
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Did u have wild freaky jump around sex?? If so ya then possibly not
2007-10-04 06:50:35
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answered by NONAME 4
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not really. although a doctor could examine her, some women are born without hymens or they get torn by physical activity, not sex. you'll just have to trust her to tell the truth.
2007-10-04 06:32:52
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answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7
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