...I'm with my boyfriend 2 months...and he is complaing all the time moslty about food...otherwise he is a very good and positive guy...but here you go likes to complain....
I'm not feeling comfortable with that attitude...and also there is a sign that tomorrow he will do the same with me....
My gut feeling is telling me that something is wrong...I know that bothers me this attitude of complaining but not just that...there is something more than I cannot explain....
Any similar experiences....
I'm I overeacting or am I right to be afraid that he is not the one...?
2007-10-04 20:11:12 · 10 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont fully understand what you are saying. You dont trust him....is that it? I criticize people and things too, but only when they deserve it. People have come to trust me, because I not only critisize, I also praise when it is warranted. People like honesty. I will stand up for what is right and criticize whatever/whoever I believe is wrong. People know where they stand with me. I dont trust people who will criticize everyone and everything and never have a good word to say. They are the people who will stab you in the back. Trust your gut. If you are not trusting him, then its for a reason.
2007-10-04 20:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
2 months is a young relationship, if he is the critical type, believe me, he will start on you. Have a look at how he behaves towards his mother and female family members, that usually gives you an idea as to whether he has respect or not! If not, move on, good luck x
2007-10-05 03:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by AnnieG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your gut is telling you something is wrong, move on. end it and move on. because your gut knows better than your heart 90% of the time. you do not want to get in a relationship where your guy is making you feel like crap. but you can take the high road first and try talking to him about it and see what happens.
2007-10-05 03:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by jenisilly80 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chronic complainers have something wrong inside themselves and you're right to be concerned. But then again, maybe food is just a pet peeve with him. When in doubt, ask.
2007-10-05 05:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If his complaining really bothers you, then maybe it isn't right. My outlook on love, isn't about what's wrong with that person, more of, can I deal with it for a long time. If you don't think you can handle it much longer, it may be time to move on...
2007-10-05 03:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by TMama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not over-reacting. If he has'nt started already he will eventually start to critisize you. Good job you've found out his dirty ways before its too late. I'm NEVER one to put a damper on things, but girl, you have to go with your gut feelings. x x
2007-10-07 11:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to let the tire deflate before I decide that I have a puncture.
2007-10-05 03:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily
2007-10-06 23:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but i don't know what you are saying.
2007-10-05 03:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel it is wrong then it is wrong.
2007-10-05 03:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋