what should i do to my husband if i just found out he was cheating on me and bragging about it on the computer

Question

i can't leave my sister was my only family. i have nobody else and no money

Answer 1

Even the score is what i would do , come home with hickeys all over your body then brag about just how hot it was, men take getting cheated on a lot harder than women do i can guarantee you that...

Answer 2

This is huge disrespect towards you. You must be feeling really hurt, betrayed and angry.

Get your evidence together, calmly face him with it, and watch him try to lie his way out of it and/or use the "you're imagining it/ you're crazy" tactic. Then, walk away, permanently.

Well, that's what I would do. Good luck.

Edit: Yes, you can leave, you're just scared to because you don't know how to take care of yourself properly, as you haven't got a job and money. There are women's shelters and support groups out there. It may take you time, but you have to find a way of defining your life by your terms so that you have the ability to walk away when people treat you badly. Get some work. Have some self-esteem. Surely you deserve better than this?!

Answer 3

Did he cheat with your sister? You say she WAS your only family and that is why I am asking.
I would leave, get a job and just leave. If you truly can't leave, then change the locks on the home and throw his @ss out. Get screen shots of his bragging printed out and then file divorce.

Answer 4

Are you sure he cheated, or is he just a bragging idiot? I think it is good to get marriage counseling before pulling the plug, so you will not have second thoughts later. Many people will not agree with this, but I would consider giving him a taste of his own medicine too. If that did not work, well, his behavior is mental cruelty and grounds for divorce.

Answer 5

sorry to hear about this its upto you if you want to leave stay for a while and then see where you can go. Dont tell him right away and see if you can get some evidence that can help you wen you get a divorce. pics, conversation emails hard proof. If you really want to seek revenge put his picture up on a cheating website so other ladies and guys can make fun of him.

Answer 6

He is bragging, but when he finds out you know I bet he want be bragging anymore. This is hard you need to confront him then decide your next move. If you love him and want to work things out and so does he then it will be hard. Once you lose trust it takes time and work to regain it. But first thing first is confront him. Decide if you are willing to work this out and go from there. Noone can tell you how you feel about him and what you should do. you have to follow what you feel is right. But definately confront him.

Answer 7

I would pack my stuff and leave or I would ask him to leave. Sounds like this is the guy who is trying to get his wife to leave. Take charge and be strong. Some people get pleasure out of hurting other people. Good Luck

Answer 8

I would start talking with him about it.....to see if there is any chance of getting past the cheating and getting your marriage on track......I would have to say that I think the chances are slim.....he is bragging about it on the computer....How old is he? 18?

EDIT: Why are you bringing your sister into this....ok...now I am thinking you are just playing games.....hope you got your kicks

Answer 9

Take a screen shot and get a lawyer. Not only is he cheating but he dosen't even have the decency to be ashamed of betraying you and putting you at risk for STD's.

Answer 10

Act like you want a hot and kinky night of passion with him, tie his hands and feet to the bed posts, tease him a bit, then get a curling iron, stick it in his butt and turn it on. He will either confess and NEVER do it again, or you can just leave. He won't die from it, just a bad burn. lol