If so, did you? What was it like? Would you recommend it? Thanks, just very curious.
2007-10-08 09:59:36 · 14 answers · asked by . 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow you lot are adventurous!! Lol, I really appreciate the advice so far, thanks x
2007-10-08 10:10:49 · update #1
I have did it several times, it was great they gave me all the attention.. I only recommend it if the woman of the couple is not the jealous type because the man is going to give you more attention than his wife especially if you're as hot as me..
2007-10-08 10:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know some people love it and it works for them, but in my personal opinion it didnt work for me. My husband and I were perfectly fine no problems, no kids we were 2 years married at the time and we were just ready to try something new and tried the "swingers thing" and unfortunately when we thought about it, it turned us on and we liked the idea, but when we did it, we felt very differently and didnt like it. it made us feel uncomfortable and it made us uncomfortable with each other at the moment, but we got over it and just agreed we wouldnt do it again. i personally wouldnt recommend it, but it all depends on the couple. Just think about the after-math of it before you actually do it, but if you do it HAVE FUN
good luck
2007-10-08 10:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by bballbabe725 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, twice as a single but I politely turned them down - nice to be asked though!
As a couple we involved another guy and it was a great experience.
We discussed it fully beforehand and arranged to meet a guy we knew.
My partner loved having two guys and afterwards we were very close.
We recommend it very highly!
2007-10-08 20:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have received that invitation, as well as made that invitation with my fiancee to another couple. Do you have interest in this idea? Do you have bi-sexual curiosities? Both good questions to consider before you go forward. But if you are curious, I would reccomend it. You have to be comfortable with the people, have a drink or something with them first...make sure you are ok with them. Then cut loose and have fun!!
2007-10-08 10:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by polarbearmom_2000 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No! I do not want to burn in hell when judgment day come. Sex, I assume that is what you were referring to, was made for married people to enjoy each others love. Not to be abused and misused through adultery and fornication. If you were invited I hope you think wisely.
2007-10-08 10:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, a few times. Overall, know the couple and know the REAL truth and expectations. Also learn if both partners are really into the idea or if its more like one would rather be with you than their partner.
2007-10-08 10:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by chaosfrog81 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Only from the skanky wife....ugh. She was SO nasty. I don't have a problem with this type of lifestyle by any means. But I shudder at the thought of this woman coming on to me. Her husband certainly wasn't a looker or anything but he was so kind and so cool, I could have seen myself with him, but not her...she wasn't freaky, she was just plain weird and scary.
2007-10-08 10:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, they invited me over for supper and it was very nice.
I didnt care for the dessert but thats ok...i stopped off and had a coffee on the way home.
Oh...thats not what you meant?
2007-10-08 10:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by Noone i 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I have... but I was single & not opposed to "sharing" an experience at the time.
It was pretty good... I wouldn't recommend it for everyone.
2007-10-08 10:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by Eric C 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes, highly recommended. sense of humour important
2007-10-08 10:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by ffordcash 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋