I am getting married August 08, my MOH just found out she is pregnant...what should I do?

Question

She lives in OK and I in GA so there is a traveling issue also. I should have included that. Sorry. I am not a shallow person...I just don't want to wait til the last minute and try to find a fill in.

Answer 1

What she want to do? You need to ask her.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

handle this tactfully - she is probably really excited...maybe a little scared about her pregnancy - and surely, a bit on the hormonal side. Call the dress shop you are using for the wedding and ask their advice on how they would handle a situtaion considering alterations in this situation. Have this information ready to assure your MOH that she can still participate if she wants to......and realize that having someone special you care about stand up for you on your special day - is more important than having a MOH who has a trim waistline. Assure her of this IF she brings the situation up. Some brides are more concerned about the appearance of their bridesmades than of the meaning and importance of the friendship.
She also may have a concern of leaving a newborn for an extended period of time during the wedding and all the festivities.
Please try to understand and accept whatever decision she makes as this is also a very important time in her life.
Good luck!

Answer 4

Only you know what is right for you and your family in dealing with your mom? Well, let me say I was 15 in junior high when my mother had my sister so there is a very big gap in our ages, and yes, I was sort of the built in babysitter when mom went to work but she asked me first if I would do this and I was home during the summer. But what can you do? Your mom knows what raising a child is all about and obviously you turned out very well to have found someone to love. I would do what many of us have done. congratulate mom, love her, comfort her, buy her a few cute outfits when you know the gender and be the dutiful, loving big sister. Then later on when baby arrives assuming she doesn't have complications then make it clear how you feel if you don't want to be babysitting at all hours. I'm sure if you tell her politely she will consider your position as a mature mom can.

Answer 5

You're not getting married for almost a year, will she still be pregnant then? Perhaps you should find an alternate friend or try talking to your maid of honor, but keep in mind she's got a lot on her mind and might take offense to you asking about your wedding which comes around the time her baby is due. Find a tactful way to ask. My best friend wouldn't be mine since she was nine months pregnant and due any day, but I found someone else and it worked out just fine.

Answer 6

Nothing! She's still your MOH, right? She will have had the baby by then anyway. Just make sure you pick a dress she will feel comfortable wearing with her new just-had-a-baby body. But still, she should be proud of both the fact that she's your MOH and a mother-to-be! Congrats to your friend!

Answer 7

Ask her what she wants to do, obviously her baby must come first and I'm sure she will be gutted if she can't make it...

Under the circumstances, a stand by would be a good idea, as long as this is done diplomatically... You and your MOH need to be honest, you both have a big day ahead! Good luck......

Answer 8

MOH= Mother On Halloween?

Answer 9

What sort of question is that? Are you worried that she's not going to be able to fit into a dress to your liking?
Obviously if she's your Maid of Honor, she's probably a very good friend of yours. I think you should not worry about this and go on with your plans.
If not, I would book a spot on the Bridezilla show on the WE channel, because this question sounds pretty shallow.

Answer 10

Are you still friends with her? Do people really take it that seriously? Nowadays you see pregnant brides and 2nd and 3rd brides wearing white, so I don't think anyone cares if the maid of honor isn't strictly a "maiden". If she is your friend then she should still be your matron of honor - but be understanding if she wants to bow out because she'll be nursing the baby when you are getting married.

By the way, avoid internet acronyms, not everyone knows what they mean.

Answer 11

come on, miss seven. do you really want to gut the maid of honor. i mean, that way she will be slim again, but that is just sooo drastic
and for main question, is MOH single or married. if single, she will still be maid of honor, if married by then she will be matron of honor, but nobody really gives a rat's behind about the distinction any more