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Do men mind if their wifes masterbate when they are not home? My spouse does not mind if I do it in front of him but gets mad if I do it when he is not at home. What do you think?

2007-10-08 17:37:32 · 18 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

We have a good sex life, i just do it sometimes because we do not see each other all that much as we work seperate shifts.

2007-10-08 17:44:42 · update #1

18 answers

I don't care if my husband masturbates (with me or without), and likewise he doesn't care if I do. The only thing we ask is that masturbation NOT take the place of normal marital sex.

2007-10-08 17:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2 0

I think its because in order for a woman to get going we need to fantasise and if hes not in front maybe hes wandering who your fantasizn about. Thats what my one says as he has the same hang up. However what he doesnt know and all that its not like ur doing it with another person so he should be pretty pleased about that fact.

2007-10-09 02:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by ksire06 2 · 1 0

He's probably a bit insecure. Hope he gives u enough space otherwise as well. It seems that he wants u to enjoy only when he's with you.....which seems a little selfish.
But never the less enjoy and live the moment...coz atleast he is happy if u do that in front of him.

2007-10-09 00:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by movie_m 1 · 1 0

I don't think they do. My husband works second shift and doesn't get home till the wee hours of the morning. He went out and bought me a vibrator to service myself when he could not.

2007-10-09 02:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tennesseemom 2 · 1 0

I have know idea why he would care ,it's truly silly. Me and my ex used to do it for each othe all the time

2007-10-09 07:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Bill 4 · 0 0

No. But they prefer that u do it in front of them as that is exciting for them.

If u do it when they are not there - they may feel u r telling them that he is incapable of sexually satisfying them.

2007-10-09 08:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I personally think that when it gets to this level you need to adjust your schedules to meet each other needs.

2007-10-09 01:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by ensoman 5 · 0 0

Do what pleases you. Maybe if you describe in detail how you did it and that you were thinking about him (whether you were or not) he might find it erotic.

2007-10-09 00:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by SweetLittleSister 2 · 0 0

I don't know why he would get mad as it is your body. Does he think your body is his and for his satisfaction/entertainment only?

That seems kind of screwy, but of course, telling him everytime you masturbate and he isn't around sounds kind of screwy, too.

2007-10-09 01:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by drewxjacobs 6 · 1 1

No...maybe he feels insecure because he thinks he is not hittin' the spot

2007-10-09 00:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by loofa36 6 · 0 0

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