2007-10-08 17:20:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-10-08 17:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Shahnee21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what alot of women don't know is what really goes on at strip clubs. If you are touching someone in an intimate way and if you have to hide it, then it is cheating. I've been to a few and I would think that most women would be upset by what they see. There is a lot more going on than the average woman knows. It's disrespectful and give your woman your eyes your heart and your love; not some stripper. If there were more men strip clubs around I am sure men would not like their wives going.
2015-03-23 13:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Vic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say NO!, The definition of cheating is having sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other?
Women have some pretty crazy ideas of what cheating is,
Masturbating, porn, chatting on line strip clubs, having an intimate conversation are all often considered cheating by women.
I even read one that said anything you would keep from your spouse.
My gf considers giving a girl a ride on the motorcycle to be cheating, she also considers dancing with someone cheating.
I have come to the conclusion that women call just about anything they don't like cheating.
In reality ,sexual intercourse with someone other than who you are committed to is the only real cheating.
Strip clubs are adult entertainment.
2007-10-08 18:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
For the most part no. But there are strip clubs that allow touching -- I don't agree with that. If he touches another woman in a lustful way then I'd consider that cheating. But as far as watching and lapdances w/o touching go - no.
2007-10-08 19:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nope, cause there is no sex involved, I hope. My fiancee loves for me to go to the strip club, cause, when I get home she reaps the benefits. Both sides must trust each other to do the right thing.
2007-10-08 18:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by scicodawg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that everyone has a different opinion on that. If your significant other dislikes them and considers them cheating then stay away unless you want to upset them. My fiance isn't allowed in strip clubs lol, if he's happy at home it's unnecessary and a huge waste of money. The money men spend in those places could be saved for a romantic vacation to rekindle the fire in your relationship!
2007-10-08 17:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
What do you think, if you are offended by him going to strip clubs then the answer is yes and there is a problem. my wife does not care if I look at boobs at strip clubs. so for her it is not cheating. the real answer is within you, it does not matter what we think. If you think it is a problem then it is a problem.
2007-10-08 17:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. As long as he doesn't take a stripper home. It's perfectly fine to let him go to the strip club. THEN...he can take it all out on you afterwards.
2007-10-08 17:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by aleesonaroll 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No I don't think so at all. Just as long as its not something he does all the time. Also I think getting lap dances or private dances is crossing the line. Kind of the look but don't touch thing.
2007-10-08 17:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it completely depends on the elements of the relationship. If both people know and are fine with it, then no. Every relationship has different ideas and limits. The key is that both people in the relationship agree with this decision.
2007-10-08 17:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by ladybug 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
is the same thing as seeing a women dressed...would you call that cheating?? now if the guy gets a private and takes the stripper home, then is called cheating
2007-10-08 17:35:36 · answer #11 · answered by Luishito 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋