Guy A called woman B stupid for unknown reasons. Then he disappeared without any promises. Woman B continued praying, waiting for his Prince Charming (man C). Now that man C is here, going to marry woman B, guy A appeared out of nowhere, claiming that he loves her and he has been watching her closely. He told her that he has been working hard to earn enough money so that he can marry her. Woman B is speechless and she doesn't know whether to trust guy A. Guy A is now having a 'fight' with man C for woman B. Should woman B say something or does she just let both the men decide who wins? And one final question, will you ever hurt the one you love?
2007-10-07 18:54:16 · 15 answers · asked by superb2dmax 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go with Prince Charming C. Guy A is only upset because something he once had is not within his reach, any longer. The fight is stupid; tell C you are with him. Guy A can go flush; guy A has given you nothing to believe he will ever be there for you. He disappeared, right? A Man who truly loves woman B isn't going to disappear; he's going to spend all the time he can with her. If I loved someone I'd hurt myself before I'd allow anything to hurt them.
2007-10-07 19:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, Guy A called Woman B stupid. Why? That's the first question that needs to be answered. The second question is, if Guy A loved Woman B so much, why did he disappear without promise and not give Woman B any indication of his love or wanting to do better by her by getting a job and making money. Now, he's back like everything is okay? The excuse of working hard doesn't make sense if he didn't tell her about it. That seems like a lie to me.
In my opinion, Guy A had some time to realize that he messed up and probably didn't realize it until Woman B found someone else. Guy A doesn't like Woman B happy with anyone else, and his jealousy makes him want Woman B back because he realizes that he has lost her. Guy A lost her a long time ago. It's too late.
Man C makes Woman B happy. It probably took Woman B a long time to get over her past relationship. Never turn back. Man C has probably helped Woman B with a lot of her issues in being left in her past relationship and given her new hope of love. He is her Prince Charming, and you wouldn't have wrote that if you didn't believe it.
Sometimes we hurt the ones we love, but we need to follow our hearts. The only thing we need to remember is to not let your heart overrule your mind. Sometimes your heart makes you only think of the good things in past relationships and you forget the bad things, in hope of fixing something that didn't work out the first time.
Things happen for a reason, and Prince Charming is there because of experiences you have, and is your reward for the heartache. Never let anyone decide your fate and who you will be with.
2007-10-07 19:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by september c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman B is at fault. She has to declare her stand on whom she love. Here she appears wish washy and seems that she still loves Guy A who has been stocking her privately. Who know what he has been doing since he disappeared. If Guy C wouldn't have come into picture, Guy A would have continued hiding. Now he see Guy C with the woman, he becomes jealousy and fights Guy C who is innocent.Guy A actually abandoned Woman A and woman A should step to her plate and send Guy A off her back which she don't want to do that she still love him despite what he did to her. So Guy C should back off and leave because he had no room this woman's heart who is total love blind. To hurt someone we love does happen either without knowing or to paybacks but me i don't go with paybacks.
2007-10-07 19:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy A is just jealous and is now acting coz you'll be out of his life. Do you want to be with somebody who is insensitive to your feelings and someone who doesn't make you feel good? Forget about him, there is a good reason why he's your ex and besides you're in a loving relationship with a man you consider your Prince Charming so why bother with the past. He's also probably just trying to make himself feel good by trying to win you back (his pride got hurt that you found someone better). Whatever his reasons for leaving you in the past and trying to win you over now is besides the point. Its over and you've moved on so don't bother yourself with him.
2007-10-07 19:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy A left, which means man C wins. If woman B put her whole heart in man C, then she should leave it there. It's too creepy knowing the Guy A has been stalking and watching her from a far! Yikes!
2007-10-07 18:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by *star chick* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man disappeared and has been watching you? I would not even consider it. You would let a fight decide who you are with? What is wrong with you? No, I would never intentionally hurt the one that I love.
2007-10-07 21:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would advise woman B to go on with her plan of marrying man C, cause he's is Prince Charming after all. forget that A that caused you so much sadness in the past, he will hurt you again...
2007-10-07 19:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy A sounds like a jerk. The woman must intervene into their fight, tell the guy A to get lost and marry the guy C.
2007-10-07 18:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woman chooses who she loves most. And it seems we always hurt the ones we love most. Because we are more sensitive with them and vice versa.
2007-10-07 23:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by bonnieboobabe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should stay with man C. Man A left with no explanation. and you always hurt the ones you love at some point. it's inevitable.
2007-10-07 19:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋