Marriage & Divorce - 7 October 2007

To keep his ego and to keep his wife's respect.

2007-10-07 16:15:22 · 35 answers · asked by Somewhere in Time 3

I walked in on my step-son(16), step-daughter(22),her child(1.9), and some crazy lady that is the sister of our nieghbor whom they let stay in our garage. I imeadeatly smelled the odor of marijuana!!!!!!!!! My wife is under a GREAT DEAL of stress and want's to turn a blind eye on anything that go'es on with them. I know that they are her kids and that I have know real say in how they are raised(At least that is what DR.Phill would say to me.) But they are tearing MY WIFE to pieces.

2007-10-07 16:12:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cheated several times and I took him back, he'd leave me at home alone night after night while he went out and partied and each time I'd tell him that I couldn't take one more lonely night. He shouts up and down about how much he loves me and how he wants to stay with me but he's not willing to give up the streets completely for his family. He was good for about 2 and a half weeks mabey even three(a record) and last night he left at 12 and came back at three.That was the straw that broke the camels back , I know he's not going to change. I'm not happy, and the wounds from his repeated infidelity are still fresh and raw. He dosen't believe that I'm really done because I've taken him back so many times but now I'm SERIOUS and can't imagine staying with him- I don't have the money or the resourses to pack up and go but he does that's why I'm trying to get him to go. Loving him use to be so easy but now all I can do is put walls up so I don't get burned again - What now???

2007-10-07 16:04:50 · 7 answers · asked by Chava 2

So I met this guy a on Friday on aol chat, and we went to a motel on the first date. I told him that i wasnt going to have sex with him, we were just going to drink and hangout and he said he wasnt looking for sex he just wanted to hang out too. Well, I got really drunk and we ended up having sex. Saturday, we did the same thing. Today, he didnt call me and i saw him online, and he was in chat rooms I IMed him and he wasnt really talking to me. I really like him but I think he just wants me as a sex buddy. Please dont think that I am a slut its just that Ive been lonely for 7 months, and I really like the affection he was showing me. I dont usually have sex with guys I meet online. Do you think I should stop seeing him? Is he using me? Have you ever been in a friendship like this ? And Finally how can I seperate my feelings, I hate the fact that I always end up getting my feelings involved and I really dont want to get hurt or used.

2007-10-07 15:59:22 · 28 answers · asked by KerryAnn 4

I was married for 23 yrs. I was a stay at home mom.When things went bad we decided to divorce.
My husband and I own a business since 1995. Our house was his families for 90 yrs. My husband contacted a lawyer be for he talked to me. When he came home, he told me I had to move. He also said that I have no rights when it comes to the business. I was a " Silent Partner". He claims that the only thing he has to do is pay my rent. It's been 8 mo. We still haven't had a court date. His lawyer keeps changing the dates. He has given me a few bucks here and there.
I suffer from bi-polar. I can't afford the meds. Now I am at the bottom of the biggest hole ever. Some days I can't even get out of bed. Then there are the days I wish I was dead. He keeps telling me to get a job. I've explained to him that I can't funtion enough to hold down a job.
Doesn't he owe me more than that. I worked 23 yrs, 24/7. We had four kids together. I did everything for him. I need help in so many ways.

2007-10-07 15:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by dvanert38 1

2007-10-07 15:58:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's been seeing this medical student. She'll graduate in a few months and move away. Should I confront him still? Or just let it go till she leaves him? I am afraid if i confront him, he'll get mad and act like nothing is going on between them. I asked him about it before, and he said there was nothing, but i know he's still seeing her.

2007-10-07 15:44:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

How important would her income be if you were considering her for a wife? Would it be okay if she earned a salary of ~$36,000? What would be considered not enough income for the partnership to be considered equal?

I would like to know for my own reference.

Use details, please. I got the time to listen. Thank you.

2007-10-07 15:39:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why! oh why does she have to get wrinkles

2007-10-07 15:18:31 · 23 answers · asked by Jared 4

divorce senario: my friend has been seperated and in the divorce process for 2 years now. it's coming down to the wire here in a couple of weeks. his lawyer asked her to bring all of her financial papers for the past 2 years. so he just found out she quit her job so she would have $0 income when she got to court. she's trying to take him for everything and he's scared. the saddest thing is when they were married he adopted her daughter (which she had previous and the father didn't stay around). he's taken that responsibility and remained in her life and pays non-court ordered child support for her, $600 a month. i feel bad that he's been so generous and now his ex is trying to take him for everything...have you been through a divorce? if so...how likely is it that he will get "robbed"?
FYI
she left and came back several times before he changed the locks! now she is shacked up with her new bf which gives him suspicion of cheating!

2007-10-07 15:18:16 · 5 answers · asked by Jax 3

Batch meaning bachelor

2007-10-07 15:17:02 · 6 answers · asked by sunflower 3

2007-10-07 14:51:16 · 12 answers · asked by Rahul B 1

Are you a man with a wife who is taller than you?

Are you a woman with a husband shorter than you?

2007-10-07 14:02:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know people shouldn't rush into it, and I also realize that people aren't perfect so there always going to be some problems... but does it need to be such hard work? why is that? why are there so many divorces and things?

2007-10-07 13:48:25 · 20 answers · asked by Gruntled Employee 6

It's been forever since I've seen my kids, I've written them and sent them presents through the years, I've gotten very little if any response, mostly due to what their mother has taught them, It's been 15 years, what do I do now, walk away, or keep trying? It hurts so much, and I'm so discouraged and tired!!?

2007-10-07 13:44:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-07 13:42:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am aware that you guys are visual. I have gained baby weight and am working hard to lose. My husband and I havent made love in god knows how long. What can I do to get his attention and affection?

2007-10-07 13:41:50 · 7 answers · asked by forever charmed 2

divorce senario: my friend has been seperated and in the divorce process for 2 years now. it's coming down to the wire here in a couple of weeks. his lawyer asked her to bring all of her financial papers for the past 2 years. so he just found out she quit her job so she would have $0 income when she got to court. she's trying to take him for everything and he's scared. the saddest thing is when they were married he adopted her daughter (which she had previous and the father didn't stay around). he's taken that responsibility and remained in her life and pays non-court ordered child support for her, $600 a month. i feel bad that he's been so generous and now his ex is trying to take him for everything...have you been through a divorce? if so...how likely is it that he will get "robbed"?

2007-10-07 13:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by Jax 3

This is very early in the relationship, but he didn't go through with it.. what are the odds that he will cheat later on? I do know of a few relationships that have gone through this.. One of these couples have been together 6 years; he was tempted early on, but didn't go through with it, his wife found a "number" but he regretted it, and hasn't done anything since. Another couple in the same boat, it's been three years since.. And the last couple I know, it's just happened. Again, it's like these guys were tempted very early on in their relationshiops, got phone numbers, you know, but then they didn't go through with cheating. Does this mean that they probably won't do anything knowing what they almost lost or are they still likely to fall again.

2007-10-07 13:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by Karla Marx 3

had a boyfriend. Do you think that's weird??

i've been in 2 flings...never a relationship.

my parents think dating is against christianity

2007-10-07 13:29:18 · 45 answers · asked by kissn'tell 1

Would you marry a man much older than you are and not rich?

2007-10-07 13:23:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband found some old pictures from 8 years ago. They were pictures of me and my male coworkers. Pictures of male friends , my kids. Just an array of old pictures, He said it is inapprropriate for a married woman to have pictures of of men, Do you think he is right?

2007-10-07 13:16:23 · 15 answers · asked by shelly 1

Keep in mind this is a man who was raised to never strike a woman.

2007-10-07 12:54:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

This question is for people that have been married for a while and are happy with life. What are the things that you do today to keep your marriage alive and fresh, things that you do for each other to keep your love alive and strong.

2007-10-07 12:52:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Extra question for the guys:
When your women is insecure do you hate that?
I know you guys all look at other women but do you ever wish you can be with someone else?

2007-10-07 12:44:27 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffany R 2

Marry her. Guys, does this joke have a ring of truth to it and how much of an issue is weight in your relationship?

2007-10-07 12:39:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not sure what to say .I think my wife wants to try it but i dont know. His wife is nice looking but still i dont know

2007-10-07 12:29:28 · 31 answers · asked by iron1 1

In the US, when can I legally re-marry after a divorce? Thanks in advance!

2007-10-07 12:25:29 · 17 answers · asked by fiji 1

me again ,thanks for your answersxxxxx. maybe i have lived too much.travelled/ worked in u.s when i was 19/21. spent my 21stin mid altlantic on board a luxury liner. worked lived in london 21/27 mixed with many intresting 60s folk. got married had 4 children, had several sucessful bissunes .mentored several startups, went to hollywood 1992 lived the dream life for 3 months. i still travel to visit friends and family got a lovley grandson 16mts will see him in three weeks time.i am not moaning just have a feeling of being restricted and isolated by age. yes i do dance ,colour my hair have young friends,drive ,do car boots , great fun, istill feel i am not living life to the full .i dont want a job my last onr was 12 years.i have never been out of work since i left school at 15.

2007-10-07 11:48:04 · 12 answers · asked by jo jo 2

2007-10-07 11:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous