Would you marry a man much older than you are and not rich?
2007-10-07 13:23:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not marry someone older than me or who isn't handsome.The millionaire thing means nothing to me.
2007-10-07 13:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Literally millions of women have married men who are not handsome, or millionaires. I've been married to a couple of women that were much younger than I. Actually it's been 4. and I'm now divorced. Does that answer your question?
An older man can perhaps teach you things, really don't think a marriage between an older man and a young woman can be successful. I'm talking 20/30 years difference in age. Everything will be fine until he reaches around 60 or so and starts to slow down and she is still young and energetic.
2007-10-07 20:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Handsome and millionaire does not matter to me. But I would not be involved with someone much older than I am. In my experience....it is not good long term. Just yesterday I had a coworker who is married to a man 15 years older than her tell me that she wishes she had known better.
2007-10-07 20:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A. NO I wouldnt marry a man old enough to be my grandfather rich or not rich , because money doesnt buy happiness and I'm not into changing nappies on grown up's.
B.As for handsome , define the meaning of the term?.
Neither of my husband's were rich and they were only 2 years older then me , I think anyone who marries to the degree of the partner being old enough to be a grandparent has major issues and need's psychiatric care.
MOHO.
2007-10-07 20:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know about older, I tend to be attracted to guys close to my age. But as for not handsome and not rich, I have. Of course we're now divorced but $$ and looks don't mean a damn thing, when you're in love.
2007-10-07 20:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would. His looks can fade. Your looks can fade. Riches can be lost.
If a man is your friend and the two of you truly love each other, then it will not matter what either of you look like. He can make you feel like million dollars if he loves you and takes care of you and cherishes you as his wife. This can all happen regardless of his financial status.
2007-10-07 20:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Wow42 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would marry a man, that was in love with me, treated me right, was honest, and had a sense of humor, a man that doesn't take me for granted. all of us are usually attracted to somebody at first on their looks, but we all know some looks are misleading.. sometimes after awhile that person can grow on you and be cute in their own way
2007-10-07 20:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely would. If you love him the looks & money should not matter. I would marry for love anytime over looks or money. Love will get you through the rough spots but looks & money won't.
Good luck!
Patty
2007-10-07 20:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by PattyW 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
can you love me as i am.. let me tell you my darkest sercets and not run for the hill..and make me feel as if i really matter to you.. then yeah.. where you been all my life.. I do that to my bf all the time.. but he is too drunk to notice.. and marriage anti phobia.. but i know he just has not found the one he want to be with and i am not it
2007-10-07 20:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAHA. I can't believe this question, and then they say money is not important. No, don't get married, just look for a rich one, it doesn't matter if you love him, he wont care if you are hot.
2007-10-07 20:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋