I wish it could change but can they ever??
I mean not just that but this perosn is in their 30s, with they ever change???
ever??
2007-10-09 18:40:12 · 17 answers · asked by KittyMeowGrrrr 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People can change if THEY want too.
Some people have to lose everything before they change, some people will never change, and some people are always trying to improve themselves and change for the better.
The problem is unmotivated people are the least likely to ever change much - because change requires self motivation.
2007-10-10 04:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can change at any time in their live...but they must really want to change. The motivation can't come from an outside source, it has to come from within.
Sometimes laziness or irresponsibility can be part of a person's personality. Are you willing to accept that person as they are? It is hard but it is a comprimise we must make in order to be more accepting of some one we care about.
However, laziness and irresponsibility could be an indication of depression, immaturity or some other deep problem that only a medical professional can help him realize.
Good Luck!
2007-10-09 18:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irresponsible Person
2016-10-15 02:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how gorgeous he is, if he has bad breath it's a really big turn off. Before you guys kiss, pull out some gum for you and playfully ask if he wants some too. It would be a nice way to get rid of his bad breath before kissing.
2016-05-20 04:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that I have found out is that you can't save someone who is drowning if they just don't want to be saved. It will take something BIG for this person to change maybe something that will touch his heart. All you can do is wait. You won't be able to change him, right now what you are doing is just stressing yourself out and maybe even hurting a friendship in the process. When the time is right he will change.
2007-10-09 19:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by gabrielaqlejandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will when they want to. You can't make someone change, they have to make the choice. If they don't care enough about you to put forth effort then they just aren't the right person for you.
2007-10-09 18:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People only change if they want to change. If he hasn't changed, he won't. Stop wasting your time, and get on with your life. Those kind of people just suck the life out of you.
2007-10-09 18:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if they seriously want to change.
Otherwise they won't until they have enough to motivate them selfs into a change.
2007-10-09 18:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you trained or helped that child since he/ she was a kid, he or she can change. You would want to attend child pshycology or something, to help that child. He could change, just pray to God that you would know what her/ his problem is. Pray that you could help him/her.
2007-10-09 18:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by teen of all nations 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change, no. Improve, yes. Only if they want to though.
2007-10-09 18:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋