This is really embarrassing but I'm not entirely sure how to be on top during sex without feeling awkward. I've done it before but I never really cared for it because I couldn't get a feel for it and now my fiance wants to have sex with me on top.
Help?
2007-10-09 18:56:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't have confidence issues, if I did I probably wouldn't have landed him in the first place.
The problem is with the actual execution of it. I either feel like I'm going to fall over or my hips start to ache.
2007-10-09 19:06:27 · update #1
Here's how my wife and I do it, and she really loves it this way.
Start in the normal Straddle-Him position with him in you, then lay down on him and bring your legs together so they are between his and move forward and back in that position. He doesn't need to spread like he's in the stirrups, but he might need to move his feet about shoulder-width apart.
This closes you up with him still in you and allows his penis to stimulate both your G-spot and your clitoris at the same time.
Have fun and enjoy!
2007-10-09 19:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Greenman 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just do it in any way that feels good for you. The on top position is nice because you can get whatever angle feels good for the moment. You also have more control for rubbing your sensitive parts (sorry, I'm shy - but I think you know which part I mean) against his body while leaning in against him. If you are sitting up straighter, you can get your fiance to play with your breasts. If it's not your favorite position, just do it once in a while until you find your groove. You will find your groove soon if you try to forget that it was awkward the first time.
2007-10-10 02:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by - 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to take control be in charge. Its hard to put into words but you need to have total confidence in your self and the fact that you are turning your partner on and you will learn to love being on top. I think it is the most fufilling and satisfying position for a women it gives you a sense of power over the men. Once you have this feeling you will know what to do and will want to do it all the time. Relax and Enjoy!!!
2007-10-10 02:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try it in different positions, maybe with the lights off until you get a feel for it. Squat, or reverse cow girl may be an easier thing for you to do. A glass of wine never hurt either. LOL
2007-10-10 02:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first off i would want u to jump on my face if i was him, after ur quite satisfied with that just lower urself and gently start out with a little grinding til ur ready to try something different. personally myself i don't even care if the women dosen't move much because i can still have fun doing it. as long as she is getting some pleasure to the man in the boat its cool with me. good luck to u and i'll keep u in my prayers
2007-10-10 02:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're in that position, the guy can last longer and use his hands, and he can see everything. So it's the time for you to experiment with what feels good to you. Try moving your hips in little circles, or going up and down. Or you can change the angle, so you're leaning toward him or away from him. Just see what feels good to you, don't worry so much about pleasing him.
2007-10-10 02:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
There is always a first time trying. With regular practice , who knows , you may not leave home without it. But after a trial period , if you are not enjoying it say it.. Good luck in this venture .
2007-10-10 02:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by jjshri ram 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When my GF is on top I'll put my hands on her waist and help her keep the rythm and I suppose it helps to stabilize her.
There are times she will lean forward and put her hands on my chest or shoulders to hold herself up, it also provides a nice veiw of her jugs.
2007-10-10 02:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
okay well u asked ill answer. okay its almost like sitting on his lap but with him laying down. you just get your legs wrapped around his waist and your good to go.if it helps tuc your feet under his knees.legs i found at first i had hip cramps but when i tucked my feet cramps were gone and it is now my fav.position! lol
2007-10-10 02:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i once dated a girl who felt the same as you. She felt uncomfortable because she said it made her very uncomfortable about her body..she enjoyed the feeling but didnt like the way her stomach and body looked in that position. try it...if you dont like it let him know....work with him on it..if he loves you he will be patient...im sure you will like it...it is my wifes favorite position
2007-10-10 02:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by DUDE Y 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋