and have children he will require paternity test??? Am I the only one who thinks that this person is overly controlling and possibly going to be dangerous in the future???
2007-10-09 18:47:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get out.
he is going to be a jealous control freak!! I am a jealous person..but that is so far to the extreme its not even close to funny...unless you have already cheated in the past and he already has some suspicion he is just freaking crazy..if there has been cheating in the past then end it anyway.....it wont last if you are already messing around before you get married
2007-10-09 18:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by DUDE Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have told him I was pregnant right then and told him that no paternity test was needed because he was not the father.. then booted his a** right out the door . you deserve a man who wants to be in an equal relationship with trust and love. this man is using you for sex but doesn't want the consequences of his actions. even if paternity would be established he would most likely be a dead beat dad. get rid of him... find a new one who will respect you.
2007-10-10 02:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I've never heard of a man saying that. Anyone who would say that is no man I'd have a relationship with because he obviously has HUGE issues with trust. It’s impossible make a marriage/relationship work if one person does not trust the other (it may work for a while, but it won’t last).
2007-10-10 02:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this man is controlling to the point of it being domestic violence of an emotional nature and not possibly but probably going to be dangerous in the future. no sane woman would marry this guy to begin with unless she needs counseling and if she had counseling, she would never marry him. I hope for your sake the woman is not you!
2007-10-10 01:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never heard of such insanity, i mean where does he intend to be while there making a kid? on the other side of town?
what's next a prenupt in case he wins the lottery, after i got married i was with my wife when the deed was being done, i think i'd know if i wasn't, lol. weired realy weired . . .
2007-10-10 02:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ben 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a load of bs. If you are married to someone you need to trust them untill they ruin the trust. Dont go through with it! That is very controlling and odd! Normal men who love their partners dont do that!
2007-10-10 02:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest marrying somebody else.
2007-10-10 02:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have never heard such a thing. i wouldn't stay with a man who told me that
2007-10-10 01:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by yeahright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have booted his *** the moment he said that.
2007-10-10 01:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is all of that.
2007-10-10 02:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋