I mean, if they both have children, are over 35, don't want more kids...
My kids need a stepfather, and I'd like a good companion.
2007-10-09 19:48:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually, I'm talking generally. I don't have a bf right now; I'm dating online and have several men I go out with. No one stands out at the moment.
2007-10-09 19:56:43 · update #1
If a man wants the same thing as you described above, he will want to get married.
2007-10-09 19:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by nondescript 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men usually marry to have steady sex. If theyre already getting all the benefits of marriage they have no reason to marry.
I have known many divorced women or single women with kids who claim they want a father for their kids but then when the new husband or boyfriend disciplines them the mother throws a fit and tells him not to cuz theyre not his kids. So they say they want one thing but when they get it they are afraid to let go and give the man any control. So you shouldnt marry anyone you do not completely trust with your children including discipline. That is why so many men stay away from women with kids.
Make sure he is marrying you because he loves all of you and your kids and you all want to be one family together. And hold off on the sex, itll just make him want you more and if he doesnt then he was never serious about marrying you anyway.
2007-10-10 02:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every man is different, but they have to be having fun and yes family isn't always fun thats why you need special you time without kids but it all comes down to th relationship really, if they love you and the relationship then they'll want to marry you but you can only be yourself to find someone you'll be happy with
2007-10-10 02:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cheekymummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think loneliness would play a major role.If the person you want to marry is equally needing a life patner he will surely accept your proposal.So you make him feel that he is a lonely man and should have a life patner and also that no one would be an ideal patner except for you.
2007-10-10 02:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by stella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman emotionally and sexually pressuring the man into it. Trust me, whether its the old bio clock ticking or all her friends getting married....it's all the same...women just seem to need getting married more than men.
BTW - kids hate stepfathers.
Get them closer to their real father.
2007-10-10 02:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by KI557 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should both want the same things out of life. Lots of laughter, fun and companionship to finish out your time here!
2007-10-10 02:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important element is love. He has to love you and you have to love him. Having kids is not the only reason people get married.
2007-10-10 02:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is Love and Commitment. I prefer commitment because love will just fade away sooner or later and it is scary for me...
2007-10-10 02:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Angelique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money? who dont want 2 marry a rich woman rite..
2007-10-10 03:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by sabrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S LIKE FINDING AND OLD SHOE, SHE FITS WELL AND IS A COMFORT TO HIM. ...SORT OF SPEAKING. HE FINDS THAT HE IS HAPPY JUST TO BE WITH HER...HE LOVES HER....BAGGAGE AND ALL. GOOD LUCK.
2007-10-10 02:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋