is it okay to only get pleasure from one position?women on top is the only thing that seems to work with me and ive pretty much tried everything. it makes my fiancee irritated a bit because he doesnt get to switch positions often because of it....
2007-10-09 19:38:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we do take turns each time first i go then he...but i was asking about the fact that only getting pleasure from one position.I would not keep him from getting enjoyment
2007-10-09 19:45:58 · update #1
Take turns, give him some of what he wants and have some of what you want. He should probably go last, though.
2007-10-09 19:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Howard H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing ‘wrong’ with only getting pleasure from one position. But, if you're not considering your fiancees pleasure too, then you’re being selfish. His needs and his pleasure are just as important as yours, so switch off. Your position one night and his the next night.
2007-10-10 02:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's kind of how it is with me and my boyfriend too. i think the reason that girl-on-top works for you is because of the "clitoral stimulation," most women need that to be able to orgasm. If you want to try something else, have sex doggy style and either had him provide some "clitoral stimulation" or do it yourself. That's the only way I can orgasm. Besides, you shouldn't feel weird about doing it yourself while you're having sex/ It seems like you have a pretty open relationship and can talk about your preferences with each other.
Anyways, guys totally dig it when you play with yourself. Try it girl!
2007-10-14 02:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by erin_jessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is anything wrong with how you want it but you need to consider his feelings too, and let him have his pleasure aswell. There has to be a bit of give and take in a relationship, thats how it works.
2007-10-10 02:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, there are tons and tons of positions I bet you guys haven't tried yet. I mean, women being on top, I wrote this whole article in my sex blog at http://datcurious.com and I listed a handful of 'riding positions' and I had to stop and do a 'to be continued' type of thing cause there was so many... lol...
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2007-10-12 00:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is ok.
Just do the positions which allow you to climax first, go ahead and have tow or three, then transition to a position which will let him get his cookies. That way you both can be satisfied.
Sex is like Chinese food...it's not over until everyone gets their cookie!
2007-10-10 02:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by Greenman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife is the same. I love it when she gets off, so I let her stay on top as much as she needs and then switch.
Your partner seems a little sexually selfish. How one behaves sexually says a lot about oneself....
Something to consider before you actually get hitched.
Good luck (something tells me that you"ll need it).
2007-10-10 02:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by KI557 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your hubby and discuss things how to improve both of you your sex satisfaction ultimately as a couples. It is hypocrite to be selfish and lack of understanding to one another's needs sexually.
Imoprtantly to give in first to husband mate's satisfaction to reach her orgasm because woman hardly had this situation before going to his own orgasm.
2007-10-10 03:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEING THAT HE IS YOUR FIANCEE YOU PROBABLY WANT TO DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO MAKE HI'M HAPPY............SO JUST BE A LITTLE OPEN MINDED TO HIM IM SURE HE WOULD VERY MUCH APPRECIATE IT. NOT SAYING HE WILL BUT THEY SAY WHAT A MAN DOESN'T GET ONE PLACE HE WILL LOOK FOR IN OTHERS SO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP FAITHFUL IN JUST SURPRISE HIM ONE NIGHT AND TAKE IT FROM THERE GOOD LUCK
2007-10-10 02:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by PimpYa21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it it its good for you do it. And trust me you on top all the time is better then him not getting any he will get over it
2007-10-10 02:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Sandra K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋