do you think i should still take my wife to a meal for our 14th wedding anniversary even though shes aving an internet affair?
2007-10-13 08:40:18 · 14 answers · asked by i love anne 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no she wont end it & yes i will forgive her.
2007-10-13 08:45:15 · update #1
thanx tony r.you got me
2007-10-13 09:48:41 · update #2
OMG.
How do you know she's having an internet affair?!
Does she know that you know about her internet affair?
No, I wouldn't take her for dinner! Stupid.... lady!
Divorce her, but try and keep her sweet or she'll take everything she possibly can from you.
Then go and find someone who loves you and respects you... She has no right to do that to you.
I feel so bad for you that things aren't great...
Good luck for a better future. =)
2007-10-13 09:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not if you have asked her to stop it and get on with your life together, no. I wouldn't take her out. Why should you spoil her for an anniversary of your marriage? A marriage she doesn't care very much about, for some reason.
Get her to stop it, and then just take her out, because you can.If she really won't give up her internet emotional crutch then seperate. It may be the short sharp shock she needs.
2007-10-13 09:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's an internet affair, is it like a real one, only with no sex involved, no intimacy and no kissing? If you'll only pay for her a meal if you feel she's earned it, then that's possibly the reason she looks elsewhere for someone to talk to.
2007-10-13 08:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, that might wake her up. Show her that she's being silly, when all she needs is right by her side.
Sometimes, some people just need to be loved despite themselves, it can be very rewarding and a huge success, or a complete waste.
Good luck.xxx
2007-10-13 08:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you holding so close to a woman who isn't worth your time of day?
Take her out, only to tell her that what she is doing is wrong.
You can forgive her if you wish, but she needs to apologize and be set straight!
2007-10-13 09:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Abby Corneto 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Will she end it and will you forgive her?, if so then yes, take her for the meal
2007-10-13 08:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would drive her *** to the homeless shelter for a meal, thats about it.
2007-10-13 08:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Make it into a full-fledged ordeal, too. Show her that she has no reason to look elsewhere for compassion and love.
2007-10-13 08:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Heck, with what you said (additional comments), you may as well invite him too..and pay for his meal as well.
2007-10-13 09:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tonya R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your wasting your time with her, she is seeing someone else and you are letting her do it.
Get a tattoo saying 'doormat', it would be more appropriate.
2007-10-13 10:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋