Marriage & Divorce - 13 October 2007

Seriously, I am 27 and did not have an orgasm until I met my husband. And sometimes while he is doing the deed, I start thinking about other things and cannot have one. Is this normal? I have a very stressful job, and am the type of person that has to think all of the time...

2007-10-13 14:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 14:11:58 · 5 answers · asked by Pam E 1

If your parents or family did not approve of the person you love and want to marry what would you do?

2007-10-13 14:10:06 · 13 answers · asked by Rayray 5

we are talking about sharing a myspace page, is this common?we both want each other to know we have nothing to hide from each other and we think this is a good start?what we want to know is , is this to invasive of each others privacy?

2007-10-13 14:02:10 · 24 answers · asked by claysgirl 1

We have been together for 8 years now have 2 beauitful boys and love each other a lot,but i have a problem with him wanting to do what he wants,when he wants whenever he wants!!Pretty much he wants cake &wants to eat it too.That dosent mean being with another,so he says?.He works 5 days a week ,a lot of hrs so we hardly see each other .I work 4 days and take care of our boys and the house.When it comes to the week end all he wants to do is go to the bar and is always doing stuff with other pepole!! I tell him we need to spend time 2gether and that he goes out 2 much when he dose have free time.. He gets mad and says i heckle him 2 much..So then i start to feel like he is cheating !I tell him all he has to do is spend time with me and i wouldnt feel like that but nothing changes!He dosent want me to leave so he says but he driving me that way!!I have given this all igot but he dosnt act like he cares!What can i do???

2007-10-13 13:35:17 · 25 answers · asked by hotmomma 1

My husband surprised me with a trip to go see Cirque de Soleil "Love" in Vegas for our one year anniversary. I feel so lucky that he got it for me and I don't want to sound superficial...but the gift I wanted to get him (Wii) is totally extinct everywhere I went. I would like to get him something special...but I have no idea what. Any ideas from guys out there? Thanks so much!

2007-10-13 13:33:10 · 4 answers · asked by Little Miss Jake 3

i want to know y my soon to be ex would through her life away. i was working and covering everything and she got rid of me she had to do nothing but be a housewife like she wanted so y did our marriage fall apart. i would appreciate it if she would answer this

2007-10-13 13:22:42 · 32 answers · asked by michael h 1

My husband and I have a business together he does the manual stuff and I run the office etc. My husband can be really mean when he wants to be. He tends to belittle me and finds everything I do wrong but never says anything if I do something right. His favorite line at the moment is "your not listening to me". I have no margin for error as he doesn't miss a thing if I do something wrong. If I try to defend myself it only makes it worse and he gets angrier and then just loses it completly. My husband has never hit me but he has come close on a few occasions. He tells me just to shut up and not say anything when he's in a mood as it only makes it worse. Can you suggest any ways I can deal with my husband so he can see I do alot of work and it isn't easy for me in the office.

2007-10-13 13:19:31 · 15 answers · asked by finabella9 3

what causes a man that seems interested and wants to talk to you every day...then suddenly the next day seem distant and only says hi with a nod of his head....

A man that always wanted to stand next to me. A man that always looked like he wanted to kiss me and get his way with me if there were no people around us. We have be friends taking it slowing BUT then One day he just changed ..more like a complete different person...

I don't know what to think any more..I miss talking to him..I thought something would come out of this BUT i just wanted to take it slow....

Any ideas?

Should I leave him alone

2007-10-13 13:13:43 · 8 answers · asked by ME 1

My co-workers are being really mean and unbending. It's like every idea that I come up with, gets shot down. When I perform well in a job, it doesn’t get notice or is covered up. When I make the slightest mistake, it gets blown up and the whole group frowns on it.

To me, this is really petty but the question has to be asked. Are women intimidated by a competent and confident man?

Please answer honestly so that I can find a common ground in my workplace.

Please list some behaviors that engage in when they are intimidated.

1. Do they talk down to you?
2. Get mad when you out perform the group?
3. Get angry when you find a better way of doing things?

Please help. I'm new to the corporate world and I think it's time for me to be schooled in the field of office politics.

2007-10-13 13:13:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

when problems arise in a marriage , why do people always thing that DIVORCE is the answer? we did marry for better or worse and in sickness and in health right? is marriage not a sacred thing anymore or is DIVORCE just the easy way out???

2007-10-13 12:56:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need help. I have a problem. I'm not in love with my husband anymore. I had problems with him while we where engage and I'm having again now. When we first met it was like love at first srung. Then he got a job and it resolve around women. Then the car came and being that his job finish late, he would sometime take me some of the ladies. Things got crazy and I assume he was cheating - of course he said no- then a couple month after, he had a girl best friend. We finally broke up and I don't know why I excepted him back but I did and we moved to another country to start another life. Now we're here and we got married + have a baby. We didn't much when we started out, and when we got married we did it quitely. No rings were bought. Its going to be 2 yr in jan. and I.m sick and tired of him. He's rude and hardly helps out with the baby.
He come home at 12 am after work and goes straight onto the computer until 5 in the morning and expect we to get up after a days work o

2007-10-13 12:48:56 · 18 answers · asked by Sassy 2

2007-10-13 12:42:38 · 17 answers · asked by emily w 1

I have a friend whose wanted to file for a divorce to her husband. I was thinking if her decision is right. They were 20 years appart in ages. She married the guy when she was 21, and shes aware that theyre not going to have kids as he have been fixed. Now that she realized that she wanted to have a kids, after a few years of being married, shes thinking about a divorce to find another man and have kids. She said shes not happy and wasnt sure if she still love him, the hubby was really really nice to her, he didnt do anything to her, its just he cant give her a kid so I feel sorry for her hubby as he is old now and needs a companion, I just found out last week that he needs a lot of surgery and the house that theyre living wasnt him anymore, it will be my friends house after the divorce. He used to be the primary financial before, now that my friend is divorcing him, he needs to move out after the divorce. Is divorcing him is the right soulution?just wanna hear a opinion. thanks.

2007-10-13 12:36:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 12:34:16 · 2 answers · asked by dasboot0731 1

My son is 8mnths. His father is in prison. I received a letter from him in the mail stating that he had something to tell me, he has a 4mth old daughter. He went to prison in October and the young lady found out she was pregnant in December(even though this doesn't matter). The young lady doesn't even know his last name but decided to have his child!!! I need advice!!! What would you do if this was you??

2007-10-13 12:33:22 · 25 answers · asked by SUE 1

He doesn't respond well to the direct approach. We have been together for 12 years, married for 5. At first he said he didn't want kids (he also said he didn't want to get married - that changed). In the last couple years he has softened a little, but still says "maybe" when he's 36 - I'll be 36 then too (3 years away) and I'm concerned about waiting too long - and then he goes back to no, not sure again - arrgh. Anytime I bring it up though, he gets his back up. So I decided to play it cool and totally drop the subject, even to the point of making him think I've totally given up on it. So now... I'm thinking I could subtely pass on information that would make him think about it without any pressure. Any ideas? Short of getting him drunk and forgetting the birth control ;)

2007-10-13 12:33:20 · 9 answers · asked by Studious 2

even in front of his ex wife. He never does. He just lets them. I try to correct them but it does no good because there is no reinforcement from a parent. This sounds like I am wimpy, I am not...I am careful not to upset the balance of things and have a hostile environment in my home. What would make a husband not demand respect for the woman he loves???? I really don't get it and feel like idiot for being in this position. I am getting ready to walk....however all options haven't been exhausted.....

2007-10-13 12:31:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mr. X marries Miss. Y. Y brings $$$ ( money )/ gold with her. Y refuses to work or be a traditional wife i.e cook/clean/look after children. Y uses the money she brings to invest in assets in her name. Y expects X to earn all the money and provide for all her needs, and her needs can be quite lavish. Y feels she is rich and hence has the god given right to a lavish life style paid for by her husband X.

Please analyze and give advice to Mr. X and Miss. Y.

2007-10-13 12:30:01 · 12 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

I just need some advise how can I say this I love this girl will now this woman we knew each other since we was kids and we had this big fight cause I got over jealous cause she asked me out and I got jealous cause she went out with this other guy and we both did lots of bad things to each other and we didn't see each other for faw years and when we did we couldn't stop looking at each other . anyway I'm still so mad with her but behide that I still got feelings for her I love her but now I feel so alone and I feel so heartbroken and I been thinking my love for her is alot more then me being mad at her I would like to shout at her but if someone hurt her i would go after them. what should I do deep down my heart feels like if its bleeding, I just want to say to her I still love you and i want to look into her eyes should I be ashame of myself for still loving her.we both are 23 i think about her everday. my head tells me to leave her but my heart tells me i got feelings for her

2007-10-13 11:53:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 11:38:29 · 10 answers · asked by Fatima A 1

he is married to her aunt and he is dying to be with my friend and not her aunt.... they been together for 3 months... is that right.... what shold they do....n they are good friends...too

2007-10-13 11:24:49 · 8 answers · asked by bamschick 1

it has been a few wks since he officially broke up with me after 4 years b/c he was unhappy... should i send a book da vinci code (ordered on amazon for dirt cheap), and a plain card that just says happy bday... i won't wrap the present up, just send it in plain manila envelope. i have no intentions of getting back together, just as a nice way for me to end this chapter in my life and move on.

2007-10-13 11:22:18 · 15 answers · asked by GirlinTrouble 1

My parents argue a lot and its very stressing! Please help me and give a lot of advice.

2007-10-13 11:19:21 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3

I have a friend who dated someone on and off for 4 years. It is a very up and down relationship in his words. He found out she she was pregnant during one of their good spells, so they rushed to the altar and got married within the month just because she was pregnant. They are both older and independent people but why would they think that this is a good thing to do when their relationship has been rocky since the start? Do they just want to get divorced eventually? Oh yeah, the guy had been talking a lot with his ex girlfriend, did not tell her that he was dating much less getting married or that she was pregnant during this time.

2007-10-13 11:16:00 · 16 answers · asked by 123452 3

And how long have you been married?

2007-10-13 11:00:05 · 20 answers · asked by loquita.bella 4

hot off the AP newsreel:

FORT WORTH, Texas — A man accused of killing his estranged wife and two stepchildren fatally shot himself Friday as he drove into a lake after a nearly seven-hour standoff, police said.

2007-10-13 10:56:53 · 39 answers · asked by Hot Lips 4077 5

My Hubby is starting to forget things now and has left the oven on in the morning and left his keys in the door on several occasions and today has put the oven on and forgot to ignight it, he says he is under pressure at work but I am starting to think something is not right do you think it is me or him?

2007-10-13 10:47:20 · 24 answers · asked by debray 3

Back in July my husband of 8 yrs. up and left me for another woman he found online for sex. My friends and family are so supportive everyone keeps telling me to take care of myself, my daughter (from a previous marriage), and everything else will evantually just fall into place. We have no children together and he did not leave me financially strapped. I always kept everything financially seperate from this man including my house and bank acct. I am haunted in my house of memories of him & even driving through town. Will this awful feeling ever go away? I know time heals all wounds but I feel like I am traumatized by what he did to me. I look back & see that he really wasn't that good of a husband. He did not treat me the way I deserved to be treated being the loyal, caring wife that I was. I'm trying to move forward but it is so hard. I almost have the feeling that I will never meet a nice man or ever trust another one again.

2007-10-13 10:45:28 · 31 answers · asked by texas_redlips 1

2007-10-13 10:43:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous