we are talking about sharing a myspace page, is this common?we both want each other to know we have nothing to hide from each other and we think this is a good start?what we want to know is , is this to invasive of each others privacy?
2007-10-13 14:02:10 · 24 answers · asked by claysgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok for all of you who didnt get what i was trying to say, we are fine and doing well getting over our trust issues,but we met on myspace and he was in a relationship already. i trust him and i know that he loves me we were basically just wanting to know if that was a common thing to do.
2007-10-13 14:12:03 · update #1
if you guys have nothing to hide, then i don't see why not. good luck!
2007-10-13 14:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by a s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's to invasive. I know lots of couples who either share a page or they willingly give the password to their account to each other so the other person can log into their page. When I get married I'm planning on sharing a page with my husband simply because I don't want any guys getting the idea that just because I have a private myspace that they can try and get with me even after marriage (it doesn't stop guys and I know it) Share a myspace, I don't find it to invasive if you are both totally open to the fact.
2007-10-13 14:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you already know you have 'trust issues,' you may wish to get them resolved before posting a myspace page. Myspace can get some people into trouble, if they have that propensity. For example, if one of you has been unfaithful in the past, myspace might be a bad influence and encourage more of the same behavior. I mean, who is to say that one of you won't have an ALTERNATE myspace page that is secret from the other?
Think about things that may lead either of you to trouble and distrust, talk about those things, and stay AWAY from those things. the strength, desire and will power to stay away from those things will help you build up trust.
Good luck!
ymmf
2007-10-13 14:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by YOUR MOM ™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharing a page is showing trust? Maybe you are trying to take baby steps but this shows LACK of trust to me. I dont see sharing a page as "invasion of privacy" at all. I think MySpace needs to wait if you cant trust each other. This is a strong lack of trust you seem to have for each other. This is SOOO unhealthy. I would suggest some professional help. This is no way to live your life. I wish you the best!
2007-10-13 14:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by guiltypleasure 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only if you both feel like it is. I know plenty of couples who share myspace pages, and I think it's cute. I was actually thinking about doing the same thing with my fiancé. The way I see it, in a committed relationship, what's yours is theirs and what's theirs is yours. So even if you don't share myspace pages, it shouldn't be a problem to be able to see each other's accounts because you don't have anything to hide from each other in the first place! So, to answer your question, no I don't think it would be an invasion of each other's privacies.
2007-10-13 14:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It may or may not work. My-space is generally a social network for young people, not married couples. I do not know if it would be an invasion of each others privacy or not, it would depend on why you have the trust issues.
You would be better off to get some couples counseling in order to get past these issues; they are the experts, not a site on the Internet.
All couples need to trust each other, in the real world.
Good luck, at least you are both willing to make changes for the better.
2007-10-13 14:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't have all the trust you need. You do not develop trust by clinging and making sure the things you don't trust don't happen. You trust by letting go. As far as sharing a page...that sounds like a great idea if you are doing it because you are in oneness with each other and want to project from a place of oneness. If it is from a place of fear this will not solve the fear. Drop the fear and be free to love and trust each other more.
2007-10-13 14:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by ong.kar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on - it sounds kind of strange - but people are all different. If someone wants to hide things from there spouse - sharing a myspace page isn't going to stop that.
sorry
2007-10-13 14:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by lilwoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married ... MYSPACE should be the least of your worries. If it really is a problem between you two... simply delete your pages all together. Im sure you have more important things to worry about than myspace!!!!
2007-10-13 14:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by hmmmm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a nephew who is married. I think he's about 28 yrs old. He and his wife each have their own myspace page and they leave comments on each other's page often. I think it is cute. Sharing one will take more compromise. I think it will be more of a lesson in compromise than a lesson in trust.
2007-10-13 14:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by karen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only thing I can say is that you two need to talk as well as grow up just because you share a myspace that does not mean you two will not have secrets
2007-10-13 14:09:44 · answer #11 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋