Does any other woman think too much when tryng to have an orgasm?

Question

Seriously, I am 27 and did not have an orgasm until I met my husband. And sometimes while he is doing the deed, I start thinking about other things and cannot have one. Is this normal? I have a very stressful job, and am the type of person that has to think all of the time...

I don't "try" to have an orgasm. I just mean while it is happening it just stops or won't happen.

Answer 1

It's perfectly normal for the mind to drift away and not achieve orgasm...it's ok not to have an orgasm everytime. I normally just let it go and look forward to the next one.

Sometimes a stressful job has creep in and affect our personal life without us knowing it...it's really up to us to prioritise which is more important - enjoying intimacy with our loved one or bringing work home. We can always change a job, but it's very hard to rekindle lost intimacy.

If all else fails, treat yourself to an orgasm!

Answer 2

well can you give yourself one? Are you expecting an orgasm from penetration alone? cause thats rare. If hes just humping away and nothing else is getting stimulated like your clitoris or your mind then no-wonder you cant get off.
Doing the deed"? you mean having sexual intercoarse with you? vagina and penis, I find it difficult and a little sad that a 27 year yo cant say what it actualy is.

Answer 3

You need to leave you work at work and try not to think about it when you're at home. You should try to relax and enjoy your husband.

Answer 4

Sounds to me that if your mind wanders then you are not really enjoying it.I don't try to orgasm......I just let it happen! yummy!!! lol

Answer 5

You need to keep your mind on the job at hand.

Answer 6

sound like to me that you rather concern yourself with other matters than having sex. maybe you in your past that sex is not all what people said it was crack up to be.