what causes a man that seems interested and wants to talk to you every day...then suddenly the next day seem distant and only says hi with a nod of his head....
A man that always wanted to stand next to me. A man that always looked like he wanted to kiss me and get his way with me if there were no people around us. We have be friends taking it slowing BUT then One day he just changed ..more like a complete different person...
I don't know what to think any more..I miss talking to him..I thought something would come out of this BUT i just wanted to take it slow....
Any ideas?
Should I leave him alone
2007-10-13 13:13:43 · 8 answers · asked by ME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing has happen between us...
We talked to each other respecfully BUT we both felt the attraction
2007-10-13 13:14:19 · update #1
He probably decided you wern't the one for him. He mulled over the possibility, and then decided against it. Men do this sometimes. I had a man do that to me once in college. For whatever reason, they change their mind about pursuing it. The worst thing you can do is ask him about it. Just ignore him. He may come back around later.
2007-10-13 13:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he married? If he is and then...If this is the case..maybe you misread his intentions or wished he felt something for you. Or maybe at the time
you thought he was interested in you but it
was only an attraction a flirt and his real love remain with his wife and he realized this and wanted to remain loyal to her.Maybe they had
been having problems.That's why the change.However, He is in love with her and
realized you were only a temporary attraction. If this is the case leave him alone.
If he is single...then ask him. Be open to
communication. There is nothing wrong in
being concern so approach the subject
politely. He may have misunderstood something
you said or did. He might just be going thru something..a personal problem/situation.
Ask him or you'll never know and perhaps he
would even appreciate it or be taken over by
your honest concern about him.
2007-10-13 20:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by zebra123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is afraid of a commitment and getting into a more serious relationship, or you read the signs wrongly.
But there is nothing worse than uncertainty so talk to him about it.Tell him just that... that you miss the friendship and would like to find out why his behavior changed so drastically.
Communication is the most important thing between humans so communicate!!!!
The worst that can happen is finding out he is a jerk.. but maybe it is all a misunderstanding
Good luck
2007-10-13 20:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For men the two hardest things to do is to first ask a woman out on a date and the second is to tell a woman that their relationship is over.
If a good friend changes all of a sudden, there is a good possibility that he is afraid of the second hardest thing for him to do.
Level with him and get him to open up to you. He owes it to you to tell you the truth. Ease it out of him and let him think it’s HIS idea to be honest with you. There may be other reasons for his mood change but I doubt it. If you leave him alone, he will only wind up hurting you more.
2007-10-13 20:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by whiner_cooler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would step back from him and not pursue him. Obviously something has changed for him. Men are not crazy about confrontations anyway. Give him some space and see what happens.
2007-10-13 20:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him.You should be open and honest in all relationships.Why play the geussing game when you can get right to the point?
2007-10-13 20:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn`t want to risk losing your friendship and doesn`t know how to tell you..
2007-10-13 20:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i agree with the answer above me
2007-10-13 20:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋