2007-10-17 20:11:30 · 22 answers · asked by Sasha K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. Lack of communication
2. Infidelity
3.Money
4. Lack of understanding
5.Accepting and dealing with change in a appropriate manner in either partner
6. Married too fast and too young
7.Not enough attention
8.Mundane routine/Not being open to try new things there in driving partner to porn or to someone else
9.Both partners having unrealistic expectations going into the marriage
10.The Blame game ("its your fault because you wanted kids too early", "Well its your fault for not wearing a condom and working too much" arguments are very circular because they don't get solved they just go around in circles, over and over again. And usually both partners get tired of them and want to end things all over again because they can't see eye to eye on these issues.)
2007-10-17 20:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The common reasons are either parties are having a 3rd party involved or otherwise they do not like each other (the old flame has gone dim) anymore. Well, I'm personally in that scenario and I didn't do anything wrong but then if he/she insist to leave and he/she might even provoke you to leave then I must caution you to prevent this kind of scenario. As long as you do not have any grounds (faults), then you are save as breaking up is very hard to do.
2007-10-17 22:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by P&C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi friend,
I believe one of the reason is incompatibility & difference in life values. Why did I said that? Because this is actually the starting point of all major reasons especially infidelity. If you are not compatible with someone & you have differing opinions in almost everything, you don't want to spend time with her/him, thus you tend to seek company elsewhere.
2007-10-17 20:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by BERNARD C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend
I believe the most important reasons for break ups in marriages are money problems,bad sex,not understanding,different attitudes to life,having no goal in marriage,not knowing each other,having no sense of forgiveness,talking without thinking,not having self control in different situations,not giving passion to your partner,having no belief in God's miracles and so many other complicated answers.
2007-10-17 20:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most common ones are the usual...money, affairs, lack of sexual compatibility. But many times its as simple as growing apart. Too many people stay in stagnant marriages to avoid facing their fear, no matter where they reside.
2007-10-17 20:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by specialpromise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage that was never strong enough to handle the majority of life's conditions.
2007-10-17 20:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were married it would be because I was feeling stifled and tired of having to deal with anothers issues. No time on my own, no freedom, having to answer to another. Having to be some mans slave. LOL
Which is why I never want to marry. I can't stand feeling like this.
2007-10-17 20:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infedelity, abuse, "falling out of love". I think there are so many these days it is sad. marriage is not what it used to be. Poeple get divorced over a stupid argument now.
2007-10-17 20:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by Sadbrowneyes13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first marriage ended because he cheated. I live in the US.
2007-10-17 20:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mis-communication
not trusting one another
giving up easily after few years
not putting energy to wow ur partner
thinking u know all that u know abt the other
n therefore placing judgemnt when really they just want ur sympathy
2007-10-17 20:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by xoticeyez1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋