I've learned my soon to be ex-wife had been cheating on me while were were actively trying to get pregnant.....
I am crushed. Thank God there was not a pregnancy, but what if there had been?
2007-10-20 10:07:19 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know... It sucks because, well, I am pissedm betrayed, etc...
The botton line is that this woman was the best thing that ever happened to me and I would love to say that I am better off without her. The bottom line is the what I am without her is just lost.
I am tring to heal, trying to get on with my life and I am just sad and lonely in the process.
2007-10-20 14:24:34 · update #1
Don't dwell on this. Take time to mourn the relationship. Get your head on straight.
Not all women are trash. Thank God you will be rid of her.
2007-10-20 10:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about what if and thank the Lord for knowing what he was doing up there and not creating a child during this. Be happy there are no children involved. And be happy that you now have another chance to find someone who will truely love you and be faithful to you. Good Luck.
2007-10-20 17:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im really sorry to hear that. Ive been cheated on by my ex too. its like a slap in the face. All I can say is get on. go out and find someone who will make you happy and be faithful.
2007-10-20 17:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by eightieschick70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about what could've been. Think about what happened and what's going to happen. Get out of the relationship and try to find out why she had the affair so it won't happen in the next relationship.
2007-10-20 17:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There would have been "Trouble in Paradise", that's for sure. It would have been hardest on the little one though. Thankfully this did not happen, so I wouldn't dwell on it- but get on with your life 'til you find someone who is right for you.
2007-10-20 17:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch.
You'd have to find out who the father was, and then deal with it from there. If it wasn't yours, then you'd be free from child support. If you had been though, I'm sure you guys would have separated, and then fight over custody and what not.
2007-10-20 17:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soooo sorry! Well thank goodness she didn't get pregnant. It wouldve made things worse. Not saying babies are bad things I'm just saying thank goodness u dont have to be linked to her anymore
2007-10-20 17:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Jacob White 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're divorcing her for a reason. Don't dwell on "what ifs". Move on and find someone who will treat you as you deserve.
2007-10-20 17:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by Bug Fuggy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even think about it? It wasnt meant to be so it wasnt. You have every right to be upset, but please dont dwell on it and wonder what could have been...be thankful for what you DO have and try to move on :)
2007-10-20 17:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by Aubrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Don't relive that over and over. That is why you are getting a divorce. You can move on with your life.
-Keep your head up. -Good luck.
2007-10-20 17:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋