2007-10-20 09:51:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't be the jealous and insecure wife.
Be the confident, secure, and positive wife. I think it will be okay. It will also shine some light on what kind of woman she is. Be nice and don't let her make you feel uncomfortable. Just as you are watching her actions, she and your husband will be watching your reactions. So, don't sweat it. Go, and be the better woman! Besides, he is your husband. If it was all that great with her, they would have still been together. You won.
-Keep your head up high.
You know this day would probably come anyhow since they have children together so roll with it. Enjoy yourself with your husband and the kiddos. -Good luck and have fun.
2007-10-20 10:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly believe that I would questions why adults would be trick or treating. Anyone over the age of 17 should pick an alternative way of celebrating Halloween. Walking around dressed up handing out candy would be a hoot though. We have wonderful neighbors who do that up and down our street. They make sure each candy bar has their address label on it, so parents aren't worried. If this doesn't happen around where you live then start a new tradition. The first year we we bought our home, we handed out full size candy bars. The children that trick or treat on the south end expect it now. It's our tradition and I love it! (I'm hoping we can some day hand out the 1/2 lb. bars!) Have fun, whatever you decide!
2016-05-23 22:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems like it is something for the kids and about the kids. Let him know you're uncomfortable and make him dress up and something stupid so you and his ex can laugh at him and have a common ground for the evening. It'll will ease the tension in the air and make things look like they're going well too the kids.
If you let just him go with his ex and the kids it will instill false hope that they will get back together and will probably not only confuse them, but later break their hearts.
Or theres always calling the ex and talking to her about it. If you two gang up on him (yea I know that isn't nice) then maybe he'll see that it is a really bad idea.
2007-10-20 09:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your husband have kids with his ex wife? If he does, then that sounds good. It is important to keep a good relationship between the parents of children. And he is including you, so you shouldnt have any worries. He is just trying to make his kids happy and show them that even though mommy and daddy are not together, they can still be civil and friendly and be there for the kids and not put their own problems first. be happy and proud that your husband is being so mature! If he was to say that he only wanted to go with his ex and the kids, then i would be worried/upset.
2007-10-20 10:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get along great with my ex husbands new wife. we chat on the phone. my husband and I do things with my ex and his wife. Its great for our kids to see this. to know that we can be friends. Anyway, you need to face the fact that this woman will be part of your husbands life untill the kids grow up. yes it may be a little bit out of your comfort zone but you knew when you married him that he had kids with someone else.
I am of coures assuming that these kids belong to him and his ex togeather. If not then yes you do have a problem and ild nip it in the bud now.
2007-10-20 10:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well do you want him trick or treating with his ex? Really though if you have a good relationship with her then no problem. If not then don't keep him from going trick or treating with his children. Other option is to tell him that you don't want him to trick or treat with her, and that they can split the trick or treating up she take the kids in her neighborhood, and the two of you take the kids in your neighborhood, everyones is happy.
2007-10-20 09:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by cjc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is doing it for the Children. If you are too selfish to see this then i do not know what else to say. If you have such a problem with it stay home and let him and his Kids enjoy the Day. The only thing that would give me pause is if you did not trust your Husband, in which case why are you married to him?
2007-10-20 09:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does he share kids with the ex wife? My husband and I do things with my son, his Dad and his wife. Everything we do together involves my son, we don't socialize with them . We are all civil for the sake of my son.
2007-10-20 09:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Girly1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, he's not having sex with her and it's out in public. Be an adult and try to be civil. This is their mother and as long as they are not cuddly wuddly, it shouldn't be a problem. She wants to enjoy the festivities too, and it's hard with just one night of H'ween. Yes, it's weird, but be the bigger person, unless they get too personal. Then speak with him later about it so that you don't feel like the 5th wheel.
2007-10-20 09:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Empress Jan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who gave birth to the children? You or his ex-wife? If she did, I'm afraid she has just as much right as you do to be there.
2007-10-20 10:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋