Marriage & Divorce - 23 October 2007

im very upset. just had a big fight with the husband. when we met things were fine. until he got "saved".
now things are just getting worse n worse cause i dont believe exactly the same as him.
well the problem right now is with halloween. i see this as a harmless holiday for kids to get free candy. and yes i know the true history of it not the distorted one some religions try to give.
well he forbid me to take the kids out trick or treating saying that they were his kids and that what i was doing meant im going to hell and he wont have his kids follow me there!!
i was livid.
he basically told me i had to believe the same as him or he didnt know what he was gonna do. i told him if he cant respect my beliefs like i respect his that there was only one other option which was to separate. i have respected him. even going to church as a family on sundays with him but i guess this is not appreciated. im very hurt and angry about this. what should i do?

2007-10-23 02:28:16 · 35 answers · asked by maylene1852 4

2007-10-23 02:27:08 · 12 answers · asked by Lady M 6

In general, do you prefer super sexy women or cute women? I ask because i've always been one to think that men seem to lust after women who look like they belong in a lingerie catalog but my husband insists he likes me better when i'm in a t-shirt and pony tail as opposed to when i'm all vamped up in lipstick and a figure-showing dress. i guess this insecurity stems from when i was 16 and i overheard a boyfriend telling his friends that i wasn't hot..i was really cute.

2007-10-23 02:25:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is very mature and seems to be regressing since my husband and I have separated. In having to work outside of the home, I have asked her to help out with laundry, vacuuming and just overall helping with odds and ends that may take her a total of an hours time. I find I cannot count on her; she tells me she will do things and doesn't. I have restricted her priveliges from TV and computer, that she loves. Now, she is being very disrespectul in the way she talks to me.

How can I get her to be more responsible, respectful and reliable? I have already offered to pay her but even that isn't working out.

2007-10-23 02:15:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband starts getting more calls and emails at work from her. He becomes more distant to me and seems focused on other things....goes into his cave...as he calls it. Sometimes she is even able to convence him that I am crazy. I yelled at her one time three years ago for comming in the house at 6:30 in the morning and making a scene and making the children cry. I of course try to talk about it to him sometimes...not all because it is annoying....I think that after their being apart for 7 years that this should stop...she seems to have a lot of pull over him still (they have children and they were apart 3 years when I met him) why is he still feeding into this crazy behavior and letting it affect him so much. Help please.

2007-10-23 02:11:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few months ago I asked for my divorce. We are living together with my 2 children and things :) are amazing. He asked me to file for divorce ( I'm was already separated)and to move in with him, he asked me to marry him, we are talking about having a child. Things are really good and we are perfect for each other.
The problem now is this. His ex wife (he divorced 4 years ago) and his son moved move to our town and of course he wants to spend time with his son, his ex wife has lots of issues and he feels he has to be there all the time and to help with everything. And his ex wife does not want me to see his son, so once a week he sees his son, also no problem there. The thing is, whenever he takes his son home, she finds a way to make him stay there. Or she cries, or shes ill, or she has no money, or she says theres a problem with their son.
He says he feels emotionally responsable for her and needs to talk to her until his stuff is solved. Why? He says is guilty feelings.

2007-10-23 02:10:48 · 11 answers · asked by sweetiefeisty 1

this cheating husband takes care for concubines but don't cater for legitimate family

2007-10-23 02:09:12 · 33 answers · asked by cheatingloverkwaku 1

I have to see my ex husband for 2 hours - 4 hours a month at the most as of right now since he doesn't call to visit any other times. He has supervised visits and i supervise him because the court order we had isn't working so we did a mutual agreement at mc donalds and i supervise him and bring a friend of mine.....I get so sick when i have to see him though but i do it for the kids. He has NO problem with our agreement he signed it i signed it weve been doing this for a year now...

The only thing is we didnt notify the court but I heard that you dont have to if you agreed to something. That you only go to court when you DONT AGREE on things.

2007-10-23 02:06:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He works from 6pm until 6am, then he comes home and we both go to bed until noon or 1pm. I stay up all night so that we can still go to bed together. Any romantic ideas I can do why he is at work for when he returns. I already made him dinner at night and I can't take him anything to work. He is not a big sweets person either.

2007-10-23 01:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone had any situations involving a homewrecker? How was it handled? DId you get even?

2007-10-23 01:03:59 · 16 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

2007-10-23 01:01:18 · 27 answers · asked by kulwinder s 1