He works from 6pm until 6am, then he comes home and we both go to bed until noon or 1pm. I stay up all night so that we can still go to bed together. Any romantic ideas I can do why he is at work for when he returns. I already made him dinner at night and I can't take him anything to work. He is not a big sweets person either.
2007-10-23 01:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Christina, I spent a lot of time in the service. During exercises and alerts, all a person is doing is total focus on their job. I think you staying up all night to sleep with him in the daytime is admirable and is plenty. Just let him do what he needs to do, concentrate on what his task is. You could mention it; that you are supporting him and want to make sure he understands that, and then let it go. Beyond that, you are doing great.
2007-10-23 01:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him and be as nice as you can be. Men love to be babied and made over. When the two of you get up and he is in the shower surprise him by getting in and washing him all over then lead him to the bed and give him the time of his life. When you are done go down and make him a big breakfast. Guaranteed you will be running through his mind all day. If that doesn't help him get through his exercise i don't know what will.
2007-10-23 09:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy! (And I know how it is, AF spouse here) Have the house clean, and have a cute little outfit on for when he walks through the door. Have dinner in the oven (or crock pot is better, that way you don't fuss too much with it), get him a beer, put on a movie or some TV and then rub his feet! My husband always loves it, hes out on that flight line, so a foot rub is just what he needs. Just spoil and pamper him honey, I'm sure he'll love what ever you do!
2007-10-23 08:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dinner is a great idea :) Washing the sheets so they are crisp and clean for you both to crawl into is a sweet touch. So is a well placed note in his gear. Let him relax when he gets home. And lastly, have you asked him.. if you ask him what you can do to support him.. he might have ideas that are uniquely him ;) Cheers, Ame
2007-10-23 09:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think its sweet that you think of him, but honestly do you really think he is going to be up for doing anything other than sleeping? my husband did these exercises every other month when we lived in Alaska, they had one that lasted 3 weeks....its just part of the job....make him a nice breakfast when he comes in or the 2 of you go out for breakfast (if he is up for it) then let the man sleep....when he gets up plan a nice dinner pack him a lunch to take with him...ask him what he would like if there is any special foods that he prefers and make sure you have them in the house....other than that he is going to need his sleep......
2007-10-23 09:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hot bath ready. Candle light dinner. Nice nighty or something and talk about what you want to do to him before going to bed. That always excites men.
2007-10-23 08:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write little notes and place inside shirt pocket. Press a flowwer and put it inside a note that speaks to how much you appreciate him. Make a coupon that is good for one message and tuck in a pants pocket. Make a coupon good for one date with mystery surpirse included. ( you think of the surprise) In a note tell him Thank You for all he is to you and for just being himself.
2007-10-23 09:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by pem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being with him and by his side is great. Although probably not appreciated as it should be, he will. The important thing is that the time you spend together sharing the love that brought you together......
2007-10-23 08:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by mrliteman001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive and let him rest.
2007-10-23 08:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋