Marriage & Divorce - 23 October 2007

2007-10-23 15:00:39 · 13 answers · asked by Angelica1951 3

I'm 23, my boyfriend is 19 and we live in 2 different countries. We have been dating for just over a year and we both aren't looking to marry or settle down soon but we are completely happy and in love with each other. We talk daily and are planing to move closer to each other once I'm done my degree in 6 months(I was already looking for a job where he lives before we even met). The first 4 months of our relationship we spent together in the same country. We trust each other completely so that is not an issue. What do you think the chances that something like this will last? Do you have any success stories??

2007-10-23 14:57:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 14:50:23 · 4 answers · asked by Venna B 1

When I try to talk to my BF about things he does that hurts me, like lying to me or constantly breaking promises to me, or constantly throwing me out of the house without telling me why, paying back money he owes me, he tells me that there is nothing to talk about or hangs up on me or says that it was in the past and thats that etc. So these hurts dont get resolved.
He always finds a way of avoiding it and refuses to listen to me, but hes happy to talk about other things. I dont know what to do about it. I want to sort this out but everytime I try I get no where with him.

2007-10-23 14:48:19 · 10 answers · asked by Mama 2

should your partner still be close to there ex and not want you to be close to yours or talk to the opposite sex and not want you to.

2007-10-23 14:47:46 · 6 answers · asked by quita 1

What do you think is wrong with my husband?Do you think his behavior is strange?

-He gets angry really quickly and shouts alot.He throws things at people and pushed stuff into them.He is a teacher @ High School and has thrown trash cans at students and pushed a table into a student's stomach.

-He seems to only feel comfortable talking to older women and glares at men who try to talk to him/be friendly with him and just seems plainly uninterested in their conversation.

Do you think that he's weird?
I don't know what to do please help!

2007-10-23 14:47:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw my ex-wife on there offering sex for money and she denies it but, I have the proof and she still denies it.
She`s a hooker!
We don`t see each other these days and it ended about 8 years ago, Her son is about 10 now and I am wondering what to do?
Should I get her busted?

2007-10-23 14:44:41 · 5 answers · asked by Kiss 1

i used to watch porn but then my computer got a virus afterwards. I wanna keep watching it, but i dont wanna get a virus. is there any other way i can

2007-10-23 14:43:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 14:40:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boss and i are debating on this

2007-10-23 14:40:07 · 27 answers · asked by carla28al 2

been to many marriage counsollors and NO change. Wife has recently admitted she has never really respected or loved me like she should have. She admits and says she is sorry, but after 12 years of living like a roommate...i am done. My girls are 6 and 8 and seem to be ok. (we are seperated now) But i fear how they will grow up in their teens. I am going nuts emotionally and wonder if i should go back into marriage for the kids sake.

My family also has taken sides with my wife and not me cause I am the one initiating the divroce.

2007-10-23 14:38:12 · 22 answers · asked by Jason F 1

My husband (whom I love deeply) has no responsibilities in the house.He doesn't share in the household chores (laundry,dishes, meal time, shopping,ect) He works a part time job 3 days a week (Day Shift, might I add) I work 6 days a week (swing shift) at a Casino & Hotel. Granted I am working the hotel, but we have about 207 room and are full at least 4 days a week.It is a very fast pasted job.So I get off work at 1:30am and then have an hour drive home.so By 2:30am when I finally walk back in the door,Im way to tired to "fufill my wifely duties" He thinks that I should be ready to go when ever he is.But what I cant get him to understand is that if he helped more around that house and with the kids that I might have enought energy at the end of the day to have sex, But by the time I sleep for 3 hrs after I get home from work,Get 4 kids ready for school and then do the house work from the day before I am beat.so Is my lack of sex drive because of his lack of responcibility?

2007-10-23 14:37:25 · 7 answers · asked by racheldeos 1

my husband have totally changed since i had my last child, he start receiving calls and text messages from different girls, he start sleeping in the visitors room, he goes out every saturday night and sunday night, telling me he just want to drive around the neighborhood, he usually receive nude girls pictures from his friends. he stopped giving me allowance, we use to have joint account, now he has his own separate account. he take decisions without informing. he love to be on the phone than to be with me, WHAT CAN I DO PLEASE

2007-10-23 14:14:49 · 18 answers · asked by Princess 2

suppose you and this someone had a fight and he/she wanted to leave? Would you beg them to stay with you?

2007-10-23 14:14:07 · 27 answers · asked by Mrs J 6

i mean there are toxic circumstances that are understandable for a divorce
But what if one parent decided they just wanted to live a single life? isnt that just selfish ?

the kids are left to suffer
some people dont even want to attempt counseling or anything.

Serious answers only please

2007-10-23 14:14:04 · 12 answers · asked by simply me 2

and for those who have been with them for some time..........
Do you still find that thing attractive?

2007-10-23 14:04:01 · 23 answers · asked by Susie2 4

What if she was a man? Would I be giving her high fives then?

2007-10-23 13:53:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 13:51:04 · 16 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

I'm 16 and my mom is my brothers landlord. He is behind on his rent he just lost his job. I'm getting a job to pay for his rent. Does any-one know a good job i can get to help my brother out because my mom said she will quit her job before she had to set her son out into the street and we dont have the extra money to pay his rent when ours is 1,200 a month can someone help me with this please?

2007-10-23 13:49:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate her and want to kick her a** but I don't because I'm susposed to be grown and mature. How ever should he kick it with her. Where is the loyalty. Is this a betrayal or am Iover reacting. Plus she made a coment about hucking him up with her friends or sister.

2007-10-23 13:45:39 · 4 answers · asked by quita 1

This is the second time they are planning to get a divorce. the first time the divorce wasnt finalized(they got back together) but this time my mom really wants to leave. when my parents went through the first divorce i was 12 and really didnt have a say in the matter. but now im 16 and i want to go live with my cousin, shes 40 and has three kids but two have graduated. the first divorce was really hard for me b/c i was stuck in the middle and was very depressed. so thats why i want to leave and let them take care of whatever buisness they have. I would only be living with my cousin for a year then my mom would move up to michigan with me. I know i have to get the judges and other parents consent but i was just wondering if i had a choice or not. If i can move to michigan and stay with my cousin intill my mom moves with me. Please help!!!!

2007-10-23 13:32:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married when I was 21 to a controlling abusive older man. I had 2 kids and left when I was 26 (in March of 02.) That same year in September, I started dating this guy. I merried him in March of 04.

O.K. We have no kids together and don't plan on having any. He had a daughter from his 1st marriage. While we dated he showed signs of jelousy. I thought at that time they were flattering in a way. Now, it has gone on for so long it makes me crazy. He is always asking me if I'm going to leave him for another man and all sorts of other questions. Now you have to understand, for the past 2 years he has either not been home in the eavinigs helping someone with remodeling or he was trap shooting (what ever the heck that is) or playing softball, and being drunk. He was drinking everyday!

I'm not a ****** or a fighter so I let this go on too long. Now He acuses me of talking to other men online. Then he saw these "sultry" pictures I had on my page. It made me want to talk to men!

2007-10-23 13:11:17 · 32 answers · asked by Amber D 1

to make someone happy but easy to piss off

2007-10-23 13:06:27 · 8 answers · asked by Kitty 5

....his birthfather is a police officer in a different state who has never bothered to try to find him even though he has had my parent's number for years (son will be 17 next month). There were also issues with us....we were not married, and he thretened to take the child out of the hospital if it was a boy, but didn't want it if it was a girl. I was 19 he was 31. He called my parents house after I moved out of state to get away from his constant harassment at work and home and his threats. Son knows some of this, but I'm afraid he is not mature enough to destinguish between being showered with attention and gifts and the love and guidence that myself and my husband (since my son was 14 months) have given him. - yes, he is at that age. He has seen his 'dad's' recent reunion with his birthfather and it has been wonderful....any ideas to help a protective mother and wife make sure no one gets hurt? Husband is ok, but obviously has conserns since he has always loved & cared 4 him.

2007-10-23 13:05:01 · 19 answers · asked by Cindy Lou 1

Yeah, just about all husbands watch it AND masterbate to it!!! They do it cause they like naughty and dirty girls, which you are not.....

Why don't you watch it with them so you can get the idea.

My god get a grip!!

2007-10-23 13:04:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't know what it is...perhaps I'll some form of relief after a stressful day or something. Is it a type of exercise or addiction? She sure seems more at ease or docile afterwards.... Can't take much more before something breaks....

2007-10-23 13:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

To the men: How did you pop the marriage question?

To the ladies: How did you man propose to you?

2007-10-23 13:00:19 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6

ok let me update my issue ok let me explain about my situaion.reason i ask why shud i get married is because ok im 20years old,ive never smoked,drinked,never had sex and I AM SUUUPER SHYY i cant look at my teachers,co-workers,aunts,my girl cuz in the eye or anything im real real shy and im 20,thats one point another point is that sadly when i was around 12 or 13yrs old i was sexually used (im not being nasty here im being serious i was you know butt f**d by this teacher) and i was in boarding school and everytime we would take a afternoon nap at my boardin school this guy would wait till everyone falls asleep and come and f***n chew on my cheek and kiss me i was only 12 or 13 and even right now im 20..5'10 and weight like 145 so you can imagine how skinny and weightless i was back then (i play ALOTTA basketball) so i mean that year in that boardin school by that teacher i was sexually used twice

2007-10-23 12:58:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents are getting a divorce, and im really depressed about it, nothing makes me happy anymore, i never smile anymore, i just got a brand new bow, and a new laptop, and im still depressed(money cant buy happyness, you'd better believe it) i have a crappy job, (busboy at a resturant) and my grades are good, but not perfect, i find that my old intrests dont phase me anymore. whenever i get away from my house, i feel relieved somehow, but when i get on the bus to go home, i get depressed because i have to deal with the same crap again, i wish i could just leave it all, i want things to go back to the way they were, what can i do to make me happy again? please, i want to be happy again.

2007-10-23 12:57:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 3 years. I'm so upset with my husband that i could just lay down and die. I'm a sunday school teacher and i'm trying to live right, well anyway I love my husband with all my heart. The first time i seen that he'd been looking at porn, It broke my heart. He said never again would he do this, well today i get home from work and guess what he has done it again. I was going to leave him, But I love him so much. What have I done to deserve this? How should I feel?

2007-10-23 12:56:56 · 11 answers · asked by blacksheet1975 1