2007-10-23 15:00:39 · 13 answers · asked by Angelica1951 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As I read there are really so many good answers. Gives one much to think about. At first I was about to vote Tommy as the best answer but I see several others.
2007-10-23 23:17:54 · update #1
Dear Angelica1951,
Matthew 5:28 makes it pretty clear that adultery begins with those lustful thoughts.
The footnote in the Life Application Bible points out that if the act is wrong, then so is the intention.
For His glory,
JOYfilled
2007-10-24 13:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by JOYfilled - Romans 8:28 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's considered human. What defines our character is our actions.
Think of this way: are you a charitable person if you THINK about helping the needy, but never do? Are you an honorable person if you THINK about joining the armed forces, but never do?
2007-10-23 15:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be concentrating on the service in church, and your spouse at home. I believe if you are happy at home, then there won't be any lustful thoughts anywhere else.
2016-05-25 08:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,because if they have the thought what will stop them from acting on it. I know this one my past relationship ended because of this very same thing
2007-10-23 15:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its callled a fantasy if you act out on it its adultry... remove yourself from the temtation..is it worth losing your family ??
2007-10-23 15:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by angelbaby1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the bible it is. But I think you should be asking your spouse what they think cheating is. That's how you should define being faithful
2007-10-23 15:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, that depends on your intentions. Can you be honest with yourself about your intentions?
If you cannot be honest with your spouse, how can you be honest with yourself?
Good luck.
2007-10-23 15:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope....as long as those thoughts dont interfere with your marraige in any way. and especially dont act on them of course.
2007-10-23 15:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by jameson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adultery is in the heart and mind not in the actions
2007-10-23 15:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by tommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if the person is black.
2007-10-24 11:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by markr76262_2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋