What do you think is wrong with my husband?Do you think his behavior is strange?
-He gets angry really quickly and shouts alot.He throws things at people and pushed stuff into them.He is a teacher @ High School and has thrown trash cans at students and pushed a table into a student's stomach.
-He seems to only feel comfortable talking to older women and glares at men who try to talk to him/be friendly with him and just seems plainly uninterested in their conversation.
Do you think that he's weird?
I don't know what to do please help!
2007-10-23 14:47:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If this is relatively new behavior, then I would certainly be concerned there was a medical issue behind it.
His behavior at school could get him to lose his job. Try to get him into a doctor for a full physical soon.
2007-10-23 14:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No not strange just needs help he has anger management issues, probably feels extremely overwhelmed probably unappreciated and disrespected(by the students)..which has carried over in his outside life from the school because he's so use to fighting for appreciation and respect that now he feels like its a fight he needs to have with everyone he comes in contact with, and he probably looks up to older women , like a child seeking wisdom from his mother, and the glaring at men, that could be a million and one things, but id be willing to bet, its an inferiority complex from being insecure about himself as a man..
2007-10-23 15:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if this has started recently, it could be depression and/or stress. Some people also display extreme anger toward those around them when they are experiencing a lot of guilt. If this is how he's always been, I would guess some type of problem dating back to his developmental years. Hopefully, because he's acting this way towards students, the school will step in and make him see someone about it. I'm guessing he's not up for a suggestion from you about going to counseling
2007-10-23 15:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has anger issues. The fact that he only talks to older women signifies to me that he did not get along well w/ men growing up. Did he have an abusive or alcoholic dad?
He's gotta learn to get that anger in check. Perhaps get him a self help book or something?
2007-10-23 15:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely he is exhibiting unusual behavior, bordering on the aggressive, violent side.
Maybe he needs an anger management course, or some counseling.
I suggest you have a long talk with him, and try to get down to why he feels he has to act this way, then suggest counseling.
2007-10-23 14:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by InspectorBudget 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not wierd. He's frustrated. My father is the same way, minus the violence. You need to confront him and let him know what he's doing and how it affects you. It could be something about his job, or something more personal. Try to catch him in a good mood and find out what's wrong so you can attempt to fix it.
2007-10-23 14:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he sounds more than weird, tv movie scary kind of stuff. Only a matter of time before I am watching his story on lifetime or the hallmark channel or whatever. Maybe he is drinking, or losing it altogether?
2007-10-23 21:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by anthony b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very weird. Sounds like he has cracked under stress. He needs to see a counseler and get on some anti-anxiety meds.
2007-10-23 14:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he needs help. And yes, it's really weird!
He has issues he needs to work through, probably more than one. You probably put up with way more than you should. His issues will eventually weaken your relationship.
2007-10-23 14:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need all the facts.
He sounds like an alcoholic. Is this true?
Good luck.
2007-10-23 15:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋