What if she was a man? Would I be giving her high fives then?
2007-10-23 13:53:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's called "dating" and people can go out on dates with anyone, it might just be coffee or much more.
Hopefully she isn't playing one off the other and will commit to someone for a relationship. If not, she's having fun and going out!
2007-10-23 13:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you mean by "going out'. For men and women, there is a big difference between dinner and a movie, and an intimate sexual relationship.
I have no problem at all with someone casually dating more than one person at a time, but I have a huge problem with concurrent sexual relationships. Believe me, I am no admirer of any man who does that. Most men, myself included, stopped bragging about girlfriends by age 14. Then we grew up, and started treating women as human beings.
2007-10-23 14:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Pagan Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any problem with going out with more than one person at a time, as long as none of them thinks they're in a serious relationship. Why can't she date more than one man at a time? Don't you move from dating to an exclusive relationship to engaged to married? I've certainly dated more than one man at the same time, and neither I nor they felt awkward about it. As my feelings for one grew stronger, I stopped seeing the others. Now I'm engaged to one of them. I don't see what the big deal is.
2007-10-23 14:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Trivial One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a single woman (or man) dating more than one person. She has obviously made no committments and enjoys the company of both men .
2007-10-23 15:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If one of them is her boyfriend, then it would be wrong to date another man. If not, then she probably wants to keep her options open. You should be her friend and lend your your support. That goes the same if she was a man.
2007-10-23 14:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether its a man or woman its still wrong, because that would make her a double cheater, shes going out with one man and then later the other. shes probably seen more butts then a toliet seat
2007-10-23 14:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are you to judge anyone badly or otherwise? In answer to your second question, yes *you* probably would.
2007-10-23 14:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na heck she's just playing the field. I say it depends on if she's misleading them to think he's the only one. Then I'd call her a dog(bitchdog)
2007-10-23 13:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not make a difference a homewrecker and a slu-- are the same in my opionion. You should judge her as being a homewrecker or sl-- what ever you make think she is .
2007-10-23 14:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to agree with what she is doing and you can definately make that clear to her but its not something worth losing a friend over.
2007-10-23 14:00:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋