Marriage & Divorce - 23 October 2007

hi...my name is roxanne.....im 21 and i have 2 small kids. i just want someone to talk to when i have my moments.....this divorce has been very hard on me and i think it would be nice to have someone to talk to who knows what im going threw....im on myspace, look me up use my name....roxanne burkholder to find me on there..
thank you

2007-10-23 17:30:53 · 4 answers · asked by Roxanne S 1

Im deaf. I have a cochlear implant but it doesnt fix me. I like being deaf instead it is just me. I made a mistake to marry a hearing man 3.5 years ago. He never took the time to learn sign language. I feel stuck in a birdie cage without a lock on it...just afraid to leave but tired of being victim at same time! I have a 2 year old son with him.

2007-10-23 17:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does one do for a loved one who recently has been seperated from his wife,. She left him.? He is going through some emotional pain,.?

2007-10-23 17:26:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We live in Alabama with our two children and his son lives in Texas with his mother. We stayed in contact with them until his son was eight years old. At that time, they moved and we lost touch. His mother never sent us a new address or anything. Last year, my husband found his son on MySpace. He came for a visit and everything went well.

Last night, his mother called and said she is about to sue my husband for 17 years worth of back child support. I think this is ridiculous because she has had our address all of these years and could have contacted us at any time. My question is, can someone be ordered to pay back child support if there has never been an order for child support in the first place. I have no problem with sending him money until he's 18, but to want this huge amount of money now doesn't seem right. Please help. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-10-23 17:22:48 · 12 answers · asked by dubbyaisanass 2

Ok I have a very close gay friend and I have heard my other half ask him if he could take four inches what should I think??

2007-10-23 17:18:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anita M 1

2007-10-23 17:15:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad cheated on my mom. she found out and now hes moved out. its not the first time hes done this. should she take him back if he promises to be faithful?

2007-10-23 17:03:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work 5 days a week,pay my own bills,wash my own car,pay for my own gas and pump it,he doesn't give me money thats why I work.I purchased all the furniture in our 4 bedroom 2 bath house.And I buy most of the household products. Would you be submissive to him?

2007-10-23 16:54:22 · 20 answers · asked by caramel she devil 2

Ok, I know a whole lot of men complain that they don't get sex as much as they would like to (or at all) when they are married...but for those of you men with a healthy sex life...

Do you ever get bored getting sex whenever you ask for it? Do you wish that it was more of a challenge to get? I just wonder if playing hard to get would make "getting it" more fulfilling...?

Lately, I think my husband has been picking really silly little fights with me just to have make up sex--sex he knows he isn't entitled to because he will come to me later and apologize and beg and try to seduce me and I will say "no, no...leave me alone..." but I will eventually give in...

Anyways, I am super annoyed with these stupid fights and I am wondering if I make it harder for him to "get some", if I challenge him...will that make it more fulfilling??

You you enjoy the "thrill of the hunt"?

2007-10-23 16:45:32 · 10 answers · asked by joellemoe 4

2007-10-23 16:39:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I pay child support to my ex-wife. Now I find out that her
boyfriend bought the ex-wife a house. Her name is on it too as "other owner" but it was really him and his credit buying the house. She does not have any credit. Could this house be considered a gift? A gift (like an inheritance) would have to be reported as income.
Footnote: She already "works" for the boyfriend's business, so I don't trust her to report all of her income for child support calculation purposes.
Thanks for any information or insights. I appreciate it.

2007-10-23 16:39:21 · 6 answers · asked by Steve from VA 1

My husband and I don't agree (what's knew). Is there a difference between the level of commitment that husbands and wives share vs the commitment that they had as boyfriend/girlfriend?

2007-10-23 16:38:05 · 30 answers · asked by quita 1

we have sex for three months now with this guy more on physical in nature. im married with two sons and he's also married with a son and daughter. im 36 he's 33 our relation is more on physical attraction but please dont get me wrong we both love our wives and family though we keep it very discreet and safe..we know we have cheated our wives..is it alright if we marry secrectly so that cheating will be out of the question and make it very secret as well. please me your thoughts.

2007-10-23 16:26:38 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 7mths preg and my husband doesn't think he has to help with his 3 stepkids that i had with a prev marriage and won't do anything with us as a family he is 23 im 29, he wants me to do all in the house, painting, pool cleaning, and cleaning, cooking, it all, i got mad cuz he watched football while i painted the living room to refi the house to get my ex's name off it so he would be happy, and all he could say was well i cut the grass after football and i'm sorry it took you all day to do a 2 hr job. i told him i needed more affection and a little help being i'm 7 mths preg, and if he couldn't then it was over, so he spit in my face and i hit him for it and made him leave. he went the next day and bought a 25000 truck and begged to come home when i let him back i found out he called a girl he met the day i made him leave and he says he did nothing wrong cuz i kicked him outand we were broke up.he says he wants us to wrk it out but won't change himself for me. what should i do?

2007-10-23 16:22:23 · 10 answers · asked by Susan A 1

i put that i had never been married before because i read online that you have to have to paperwork showing you're divorced! i know it's bad but will they notice? i don't have the paperwork from the divorce it was years ago and i was only 18.

2007-10-23 16:12:06 · 10 answers · asked by .. 2

2007-10-23 16:11:45 · 10 answers · asked by BluSigma 1

From the start, I didn't feel a spark. I felt forced to date him because his mom set us up. I realized though that as we dated, I was being drawn closer to him. He's a caring and thoughtful man- intelligent, open minded, experienced, and he was very interested in me from the start. He's 30 and I'm 23, and it has now been a year. I am very happy with him- he's very supportive, but I don't feel a spark! I feel comfortable with him, but I am not sure what it is- maybe we're missing the spiritual connection? We don't talk about religion because we have different beliefs, but maybe that is part of it? Or maybe I am so scared he's going to bring up marriage that I'm holding back? Sometimes I feel like its unfair because he got to have 7extra years of dating before he found me, and he obviously wants to be with me for the rest of his life. But I am 23- for me, this is not the age I planned to be ready for marriage, and I don't feel ready to commit myself that seriously. Thoughts?

2007-10-23 16:05:44 · 7 answers · asked by FutureDoc 2

2007-10-23 15:47:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has been having an internet affair with this chick, that had previously been physical with, i caught him 20mths ago and thought it was over, then i busted him still in contact with her about 2mths ago, he writes to her all sorts of beautiful things, he works away for 2 weeks and then is home for a week,and now he is being suspicious of me!!!

2007-10-23 15:42:34 · 14 answers · asked by andianaplus3 2

A voice message was waiting for my husband to recieve. I usually dont snoop around his stuff, however it was 3 o'clock in the morning. At first I thought it was from his mom since she has been very ill lately, but when I looked to see who it was I found out it was some woman. Looking a little suspicious I decided to check it out. When I got to his voice mail the woman exactly said, " Hey babe I miss you. I cant wait to see you tomorrow. I love you!" my heart was broken. I confronted my husband about it and he said that nothing was going, that she likes him, and they just talk and blah blah blah. I told him not to talk to her anymore and I caught him three times. I even called the lady up very nicely and she said nothing was going on either but my husband told her that him and i were seperated. But my husband denies everything! I dont know what to believe him or her?

2007-10-23 15:39:23 · 41 answers · asked by Mikki 1

I am only 14. But my father is emotionally and mentally abusive. I could go on for hours about how horrible he is and it's not just because i am a teenager. He is a horrible man. Is it possible for me to take him to court so i can stay at my mothers full time? What kind of lawyer would i need?

2007-10-23 15:17:16 · 14 answers · asked by Jessie 1

I mean, if they somehow aware of such consequences are likely to arise, why not just stay unmarried (without kids of course) instead of wasting loads of money on a wedding which lasted only a painful few years confusing the public . There are other meaningful things to do than this in the world!

2007-10-23 15:16:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 15:13:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girls, both good and bad, prefer to date bad boys while they're young; they ignore all the nice guys, making us suffer in lonliness and despair while they go out and have all sorts of sexual pleasure with other men. But those bad guys dump them like they deserve, and now they want to marry a nice guy--the same nice guys (many of them virgins) whom they have selfishly neglected.

I, for one, will not tolerate such selfishness! Why should I take a sexually used girl? I don't want her, especially because she neglected me for the loser that abused her. It is for this reason that I will be searching for a modest foreign wife, not some selfish, used-up ***** in the States.

2007-10-23 15:12:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So obviously you are married, since you clicked this question :-) Im just curious..What are things you know now that you wished you had known before you were married? For example, I wish I had known to save up money..something like that?

2007-10-23 15:12:17 · 21 answers · asked by Susan F 4

I'm 25 and a stay at home of 2 small girls. My husband works full time and is finishing up his last semester of college, so he's gone from about 6:30 am to 6:30 pm, then we eat dinner as a family, put the kids to bed, and then he does homework or just relaxes. Lately I've noticed that our sex is different (doing stuff he's never done before - we've been together for 7 years) and he doesn't seem to care if I take off after the girls go to bed to run errands - even if I do it often. I had a dream last night that he was having an affair with a coworker. I was curious before, now I'm suspicious. Dumb, I know - it was just a dream.

Is this all in my imagination or would you be suspicious?

2007-10-23 15:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have some issues and lately he has removed is wedding band and said that he doesn't trust me because i filed a EPO a few months ago and when we went to court we talked about working on our marriage and that is what I thought we were doing and he has recently said that I could take his world away from him at anytime and he just doesn't trust me and he has resevations about us.when I try to bring up this and ask questions he blows up and says I need help if I can't understand his feelings and that I have to make everything about ME. I am to the point where I am afraid to say anything to him regarding us,but I feel if I don't we sre going nowhere.He likes to go to bars and drink and this last time he did it I asked him to wear his wedding band and not to be acting single and he once again said there you go making MY night into you. HELP I need some advice!

2007-10-23 15:07:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so every relationship i gave had has never worked out. i always doubt it. before i go to bed i feel that the relationship is good but throughout the day it makes me sick to think about it. am i not really ready to date yet??? is it me or him? i feel embaressed to be seen with the guy always because i think to myself i really dont like him??? but it has happened with every guy! if i talk to him its fine but then i stop and 5 minutes later... DOUBT! what do i do? is this a commitment issue?

2007-10-23 15:04:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so this guy is really clingy and after only 2 weeks he says he loves me. i hvae tried to make up excuses about having allot of work and not being able to date him and he is like ill wait for you.... blah blah blah.... and i love you and thats for sure. Ive broken up with him like three times but somehow he guilts me back in by saying he loves me. He guilted me into saying i love him when i dont! and like the night i broke up with him after he said he will wait forever he says he has a new girlfreind. and then guilts me into saying that i love him... and my ex is his freind and we walked by him and my ex walk away and then he is all like Hey jim... and he gestures to me in a look what i have kinda way... he says he doesnt wanna be hurt again and what do i do to dump him!!!!

2007-10-23 15:03:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 15:00:42 · 9 answers · asked by Nika 2