ok so every relationship i gave had has never worked out. i always doubt it. before i go to bed i feel that the relationship is good but throughout the day it makes me sick to think about it. am i not really ready to date yet??? is it me or him? i feel embaressed to be seen with the guy always because i think to myself i really dont like him??? but it has happened with every guy! if i talk to him its fine but then i stop and 5 minutes later... DOUBT! what do i do? is this a commitment issue?
2007-10-23 15:04:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It seems as though you have trust issues. You may have had been betrayed before and now you have developed a huge defensive wall. Just relax, and enjoy the time and don't put so much pressure on yourself. It will work out if you just let it.
2007-10-23 15:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so quick to label yourself.
It sounds to me like you are very young and not taking the time to get to know someone before being in a "relationship" with them. You also seem to be flitting from one guy to the next without thinking.
Take some time to get to know yourself and these guys first. You'll be fine.
2007-10-23 22:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You write like a 13 year old girl. You don't have commitment issues, you're just young. Wait to date until you're older.
2007-10-23 22:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a commitment issue i don't know what to call it i don't see why you would doubt being with whoever it is. is it something their not doing or is it the fact you can't see yourself with that person?
2007-10-23 22:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need more info.
How do you view other men ? Your father? Your family? Are you a single child? Why embareased? Have you had close friends? boys? Girls?
2007-10-23 22:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to discover and expose whatever it was in your childhood that has caused you to be a slave to your fears.
Then conqueror your fears.
This will probably take some therapy.
Good luck.
PS. Please stop shouting your questions at us.
2007-10-23 22:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just haven't found true love yet is all. When you find it, it will consume you and you will guard it with your life.
2007-10-23 22:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋