he has been having an internet affair with this chick, that had previously been physical with, i caught him 20mths ago and thought it was over, then i busted him still in contact with her about 2mths ago, he writes to her all sorts of beautiful things, he works away for 2 weeks and then is home for a week,and now he is being suspicious of me!!!
2007-10-23 15:42:34 · 14 answers · asked by andianaplus3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no he is not with her, he is way outback australia on a drilling crew, no access to anything....we have 3 kids...not so easy to just dump his ass!
2007-10-23 15:52:47 · update #1
if he says or thinks you are fooling around that would sure justify his behavior now wouldn't it.
2007-10-23 15:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Boy are you naive, what makes you think she isn't with him in the Outback. If he was my boyfriend i would be right there with him having a good old time away from the wife. Don't get me wrong i am married myself and my husband had an affair that's why i know your husband will go to any lengths to be with her. Don't ever underestimate the hold the other woman has on your man remember she is doing things to him that makes him keep coming back for more. I bet anything that if you were to make a surprise visit to the out back guess who would be there. I know how much it hurts to find out your husband is a pig. You probably thought he was one of the good guy until this happened. If it happened once i could understand you giving him another chance but he went back a second time and you know what they say about that. (Fool me once shame on him but fool me twice and shame on me). Can you sleep with a man you know is having sex with another woman?
2007-10-23 23:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
par for the course. I'm going thru the same thing . When I ask about the keylogger I found on my computer I was told I don't know how it got there. The reason why they put them on the computer is to cover there own tracks. They are the cheater who is looking to see if your looking to catch them. Believe me I gave proof and I was told.. you are not understanding what you are looking at. A man will never tell you the truth even if the truth is put in his face. I went thru this with my last hubby as well but when I caught him he killed himself. The best thing you can do is take care of self. Because they still sleep at night even though you don't and they don't care. Do what is best for you. I can't tell you to leave him that is a personal choice.
2007-10-23 23:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by holley757 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is with her those two weeks yes I* would be worried but not only that he put the lock on because he does not want you to find out about this affair... If I* were you I would get me a good lady lawyer and explain things to her... Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-10-23 22:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend's hubby put a tap on their phone.
She found it so we started talking in riddles, etc...
I'd call late & tell her something like "The moon is full" & then just hang up.
Or she'd call me with some other cryptic sentences.
Every time he went to the barn where the device was hidden & she knew he'd been reviewing her conversations, he would get really buggy, stressed out.
Eventually the thing was removed but it sure was fun razzing him with his own setup.
2007-10-23 22:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are program that can detect a keylogger.
I discovered one on my computer - and I am clueless who put it there .. no one in my home knows anything about this type of computer software.
Here is a link to help you discover if you have keylogger.
www.keylogger.in
2007-10-23 22:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the show Cheaters and set things up. It would help you out in many ways.
2007-10-23 22:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by smooth_stalin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with yourself learn to let go
2007-10-23 23:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by Support Breast Cancer Research 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get to thaqt point in the relationship, you may be better off moving on, or at least back off on the seriousness of the relationship.
2007-10-23 22:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by scottcowdrey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he might have a guilty mind so he is blaming you for messing around to try and clear his own mind.
2007-10-23 23:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by racheldeos 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋