Ok, I know a whole lot of men complain that they don't get sex as much as they would like to (or at all) when they are married...but for those of you men with a healthy sex life...
Do you ever get bored getting sex whenever you ask for it? Do you wish that it was more of a challenge to get? I just wonder if playing hard to get would make "getting it" more fulfilling...?
Lately, I think my husband has been picking really silly little fights with me just to have make up sex--sex he knows he isn't entitled to because he will come to me later and apologize and beg and try to seduce me and I will say "no, no...leave me alone..." but I will eventually give in...
Anyways, I am super annoyed with these stupid fights and I am wondering if I make it harder for him to "get some", if I challenge him...will that make it more fulfilling??
You you enjoy the "thrill of the hunt"?
2007-10-23 16:45:32 · 10 answers · asked by joellemoe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then have your hubby compete with the UltraVibro. While he watches. And NO! He can just keep his hands to himself.
2007-10-23 16:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Chiksita 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
your question , mmm
it not about your sex life , i smell a rat here
your unhappy, and want to know ,how to solve the first problem ,
which i would point out is comm cation problems,between you guys.
sure the trill of hunt is # one in my book, i like sex when i dont know its coming .when i have to go looking for it , it more fun sure ,
maybe you need to tell your hubby ,look darling ,
lets no plan this , let see what happens ,
as for the fight thing, he playing you at your own game,
you give in too easy, quit that !! here my question , where di d the healthy sex life come from ? you make that up ? lol lol
2007-10-23 17:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't want more of a challenge, this may be different for others. For me it's not a matter of getting it whenever I want it. Sex is a time for us to show our love for each other. It's a time for us to please each other. If I had to beg for it I would feel rejected because I would know that she was just doing it to make me happy not because she wanted it. If anything I'd prefer my woman was more aggressive in letting me know when she wants it.
2007-10-23 17:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by kirk1500 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was getting sex whenever I wanted, I wouldn't be complaining. But I always do like a challenge.
2007-10-23 16:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess some men find the "tease" to be a turn-on, but others would probably be turned off by it. It all depends on your husbands preference.
If you want my personal opinion, I think that when a woman plays hard to get, I am turned off. If she's difficult to get sexually, I feel insecure and unsure - that's why I think of it as a turn-off.
2007-10-23 16:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question....however, I want it more than my husband does because he works 12 hour shift in a freaking warehouse, he's too "tired" or I'm "wearing him out"!
But, anytime he wants it, he gets it! It's not fair!
>>>sorry---frustration talking<<<
2007-10-23 16:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question: NO
The fights between you and your husband are caused by something else.
2007-10-23 17:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by Frenchy-68 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had grounds to answer this question. Remember, you teach people how to treat you.
2007-10-23 16:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by GK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, specifically; NO.
2007-10-23 17:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i am single and male as well if you cant keep his neeeds up another will proven fact . my opion?
2007-10-23 16:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋