Does love ever feel the same? i've split with my ex 5 months ago and i still miss her terribly, i still love her and can't imagine been with anyone but her but this isn't going to happen and if it ever does it won't be for many years. She was the first person i've ever really truly loved. Will it ever feel the same to fall in love again? i can't imagine feeling anything towards anyone else like i did with her. Does love feel the same the second time around or is it not as strong?
2007-10-23 19:52:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it wont feel the same because you will always feel as though part of your hart has been ripped out!
Good luck anyway :) soz u broke up with her
2007-10-24 05:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Shley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always seem to remember the first love more then any other. Maybe because it hurt the most when you split up or maybe it is because we are younger then. There will be others you care about and some maybe not the same but there will come a time that you will find that someone that feels the same as you do and wants to spend their life with you. Yes that feeling will be very strong and even stronger then the one you have right now. Believe me!
2007-10-24 02:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by craft painter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love does the feel the same when you find it again. You just can't be looking so hard that you try to 'force' that feeling on a new relationship. Spend some time instead working on your own interests and meeting new people. You have some more growing to do, no matter how old you are . Let love find you.
2007-10-24 03:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is better. I am not saying that you didn't love her but because the two of you are no longer together I am going to say it wasn't real love. I was married to this guy and I loved him. Things didn't work out and we divorced. I was like you devestated and hurt and I missed him. Until.... I met my current husband. I now know what true real love is. I look back at my ex-husband and I cant believe that I thought we were really in love. You will see what I am saying is true when you meet the right girl. Good luck
2007-10-24 04:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by D and G Gifts Etc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will find love again...and yes the second time will feel the same or better as you would not do the same mistakes...i never thought that i'd fall in love again,but I did and i can tell u that i never felt so good before.I must not compare but have to say that if i was still in my previous relationship,i would have not realised how beautiful a marriage can be! somethings happen for the best....its painful but you deserve better and you will get it when you least expect it.
2007-10-24 03:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by dewdrops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not say how long you were together or the reason for the split. It will get better and you will love again, five months is nothing in the grand scale of things. Fill your life with things you enjoy doing, make efforts to meet new people and enjoy their company. Good luck
2007-10-24 03:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first love is the hardest to get over. It will get better and you will love again. It is different with someone else. The next time might feel even better. Good luck.
2007-10-24 03:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give it some time, after all, 5 months is not enough time to let go of a great love like that one. You will find love again, and I guarantee that every one of them, will be unique, with a sense of feeling that will take you to heaven each time.
Good luck!!!
2007-10-24 04:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by Sesoid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is be the same.
You are grieving, give yourself some time.
Love is Strong.
New love will help you heal.
it is almost like being afraid that your love for you second child will not be the same as your love for your fist child. It is not the same but it is love , great love.
Have faith in love
Ronit
http://www.behappyinlife.com/relationshipcoaching.php
2007-10-24 04:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with a few guys in my life but I have never loved anyone like I loved my first......I had stupid love for that man. We all have to go throught this love is hard. Don't worry you will get over her.
2007-10-24 04:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by A J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋