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diff understanding of things, diff cultures, diff age groups affects thinking, and of course diff locations diff upbringings. i am from Delhi, India.

I am a guy and thinking of getting married. i am going for arranged marriage so before that i want to assess the personality of the candidates/females. cos i do not want any crook, evil, dominating, selfish etc kind of a girl.

I want a adjusting, loving, mature, understanding, and not a crook kind of a girl.

so how do i assess the girls. since i am not a psychiatrist.

what are the ways of assessing a girl or a person through conversation .

what are the other things by which a person can be assessed as in his overall personality.??

Thanks for answering and your precious time.

Take care .

have a nice day.

God bless u.

Bye,

2007-10-23 20:18:33 · 4 answers · asked by Jerry Maguire 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Someone told me, travelling together is a good way in understanding your prospective partner. A trip reveals a person's personality and things they would do and react to in not so familiar circumstances. You may choose to pick some elders / cousins along if travelling alone with your prospective partner is a problem.

2007-10-23 21:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by bebe 3 · 0 0

The easiest way to get to know a person is to spend time with them. It is hard to do that with an arranged marriage isn't it. I guess if it were arranged you would come from similar backgrounds and cultures. I am 39 and from the United States. I am married and a female. Here we date people. You spend time together and do things together to get to know one another. Sometimes honestly you never know a person until you live with them. Some people change after they get married and some don't. If you are having an arranged marriage then you should know her family. That is all I have for you. I do not know much about arranged marriages. Good luck to you.

2007-10-23 20:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 1 0

a chum is somebody you call and communicate over with sometimes and each so often you do issues at the same time. i've got not got faith all of us could have only one "terrific chum". human beings oftentimes have a number of them at anybody time. I somewhat have 2 terrific pals that ensue to be woman individuals of the different intercourse. I met them the two suitable after graduating from intense college 35 years in the past. they have continually been there for me in each and every way accessible. I cried with them as quickly as I misplaced my sister, as quickly as I misplaced my mom and as quickly as I misplaced my girlfriends. They continually inspired me and instructed me to get a grip whilst i necessary it. I by no skill dated them because of the fact I enjoyed them too plenty to surrender what we had as pals. I by no skill seen having intercourse with the two one among them for an identical reason. i does not be alive on the instant if no longer for my terrific pals. i think of that's what separates terrific pals from close ones. A terrific chum is somebody you are able to no longer stay devoid of. a particular chum is somebody you open as much as sometimes. You tell them what's taking place, yet no longer each and every little thing and not each and every of the time. you are able to desire to stay to tell the story devoid of them, in spite of if it could make existence harder.

2016-12-30 03:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by mcgarr 3 · 0 0

Encourage them to talk about everyday things and their interests and preferences.---To talk about them selves---.Then,most importantly, listen to them.I mean ,really listen to what they have to say.Talk to them and listen to what they say, and listen and talk to them as equals.

2007-10-23 20:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by ernst v 2 · 1 0

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