Marriage & Divorce - 26 October 2007

I'd like to get some womens opinions on why my wife behavior. Ever since I've been married, and I'm talking about from the honey moon on, my wife has been reluctant to engage in any physical intimacy. We probably have sex once every 6-8 weeks and other types of intimate actions about as often. Whenever I have approached her about this, she has told me that I was over reacting and this was normal as she has told me numerous times that most married couples are less active than we are. I've heard every excuse imaginable to avoid intimate contact, from it's to early to it's to late to I haven't had enough exercise. When we were dating this never was an issue, but as soon as I married her, it all started. The only exception was when she was hiding the fact that she was talking to her ex-bf. Then she was all over me. Can any one shed any insight as to why she would do this?

2007-10-26 02:15:19 · 39 answers · asked by lonelyschusband 1

2007-10-26 02:10:15 · 15 answers · asked by Maria 3

Would the court consider her a custodial parent ? By virtue of the marriage ?

2007-10-26 02:09:21 · 8 answers · asked by Mark H 2

2007-10-26 02:02:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it come from working or stress????? thks for answering..

2007-10-26 01:58:45 · 10 answers · asked by back2future 5

2007-10-26 01:54:10 · 15 answers · asked by mamerto s 1

2007-10-26 01:49:18 · 18 answers · asked by mamerto s 1

ok last night me and husband watching 28 weeks later the movie i got kindof upset that the man in the movie left his wife, ok i asked my husband would he ever leave me and he said yes i asked if he would save my life or protect me from someone and he said that he would try to save anyones life that my life was no better and that if it came to my life or his he chose his now that hurt becouse i married him and that doesnt make me feel protected or loved " my lifes no more better than anothers" i understand that but were married its supposed to be us for eachother right.. ok well im pissed and hurt and wanted to see how yall would feel every woman wants to feel protected and safe right? guess i better go get some self defense classes becouse its me alone against the world!

2007-10-26 01:36:13 · 27 answers · asked by misty l 1

2007-10-26 01:20:13 · 4 answers · asked by lorraine s 1

2007-10-26 01:16:24 · 19 answers · asked by mini 2

Family's stability is very crucial for a person's security, but its adversely affected by extramarital relationships. I don't want to judge people, particularly women who as mistresses have contributed greatly to the erosion of the marital commitments to stay together and work out any differences and conflicts. With whom do we start, is it with the woman (mistresses) or the man (philandering husband)? and how?

2007-10-26 01:03:45 · 15 answers · asked by Vanessa I. Andrews 1

I was in love with this girl and we had been serious for about two years and out of the blue she one night asked me to marry her and I told her that I loved very much but that I did not want to get married until I was financially set. She later cheated on me and we never spoke again. I've asked many people if this was a good enough reason to say no. What do you think?

2007-10-26 00:45:44 · 20 answers · asked by Sexy Bear 1

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2007-10-26 00:23:06 · 12 answers · asked by Tex Ahoy 2

i have been together with my ex for 7 years. his 5 years younger than me, with had 3 young kids together, oldest is 5,the youngest is 5 months.

since the first one he has become physically violence. every week we would argue, an wen the argument gets to much he punches me about.i've been suffering like this every single month for past 7 years, i dont no why i tolerate it.
now i've finally come to my sense.since baby been born, it made me see things clearly, no matter how many time he said sorry, it wont happen again. it made me think, leopards never change their spots. all my friends and family say his young. i say if his old enough to have kids,then he should be old enough to take responsibilty.
now his gone im left on my own with the kids, im finding it hard to get over,that this could be the end. how do i get over it? he said he dont want to know the kids, their not his. how do i help myself to deal with this? im trying to be strong for them, but inside i feel like cracking up

2007-10-26 00:11:57 · 11 answers · asked by BABYDIL4 1

I wish that when we get married, well they could just pay us for being a wife. I tired to cleaning, washing, cooking and telling my husband that we need water.
It seems that I have 3 jobs every day. I wish we could like apply for annual leave or sick leave or just take a long vacation. But we get paid. I'm so tired---if they pay me I would do a better job..it not that I dislike him..I need a hand sometimes.

2007-10-26 00:10:48 · 6 answers · asked by queen 2

My neighbour recently had a baby and now I've discovered my husband has paid several cheques to her in the last couple of months. Her husband left her about 4 months ago and had a fight with my husband in our garden. My husband says he hit him because of the football score that day, I know he can get quite heated on match days so did not read too much into this. When I asked my husband about the cheques, he said he just felt sorry for her. I even offered to look after the baby as my husband wanted to take her out for the night to cheer her up. Am I being naive?

2007-10-26 00:03:33 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous