2007-10-26 01:16:24 · 19 answers · asked by mini 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a honest nature, good outlook, responsible, thoughtful/considerate ... all the good things but really its someone who you admire, someone emotionally strong and not too dependent, a man who you can depend on and who takes your side, someones whose opinion you value, who'll stand proudly at your side... a man who you think will be a good father, provider, someone whose shoulder you can cry on, a man whose not afraid to show emotion, you can laugh with, your best friend - anybody know where i can find one of those LOL :o)
2007-10-26 01:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by CDsummersun 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Every wise man wanna be a good husband, but not many capable to do so. When a husband become too protective, he is prone to hurt his love ones. When he wanted to make decision for his family, he forgot his to listen to them. When he thought his way is the best choice, he forgot to ask others for alternatives. The worst part he sometimes expect others to perform after what he has contributed but he failed to show his continuity compassion towards them
2007-10-26 08:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Fizah AMN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know plenty on what makes a bad one - my ex hubby hehe
No seriously I think a good husband would be an understanding man. Who gives you some freedom to pursue your own sport/hobby etc. Let you go outwith your friends, not mind you talking to other men, help around the house, be caring and passionate.
If you find one and he's going spare send him my way....
2007-10-26 08:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A good husband is someone that loves you know matter what. He is there for you and comes to you when he needs you to be there for him. He treats you like and equal and values your opinion. He works and helps with the house and the kids. You can depend on him for anything and you can tell him anything. He is trustworthy and honest. He will tell you like it is and not beat around the bush. I have been lucky enough to find one.
2007-10-26 09:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that's different for every couple because i think that has a lot to do with the dynamic between the two people...what's important to one person might not be the same for another. i think that for the most part, a good husband is someone who you can be very open and honest with, maybe your best friend, who understands you really well and respects and appreciates you, who’s responsible, who has his flaws but admits when he's wrong and is considerate of your feelings, someone who's very loving and loyal, who's committed to you and is faithful, who makes you feel special, who supports you emotionally/physically/spiritually, somewhat selfless, confident (not condescending), someone who cheers you up when you are down and helps you see and enjoy the better things in life, and if you wanted to have kids, then someone who’d make a good father, someone who accepts you for who you are and looks forward to spending the rest of his life with you :)
2007-10-26 08:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by smiles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he respects his wife and is loyal and honest with her.Puts her and family first and does his best to take care of them.Doesn't mentally or physically abuses her.Shows and says he loves her.Not neccessaraly words but actions.He doesn't push her feelings on things aside he listens to her.Doesn't put her down in any way and communicates with her.Lets her know they are partners and she is not a servant to him but a help mate,and a gift from our father and she should do the same.
2007-10-26 08:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by lollypop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like I'm a good husband (not perfect... cause who's perfect after all?... but I am faithful & reliable & committed to my wife & marraige)
But here's what I feel makes me a good husband: Okay... how can I put this without sounding all Holy-roller... because I'm not quite that (we don't even go to church...) but, I did have a religious upbringing... I feel that I have a decent relationship with God & there are certain things I believe & take seriously.
One of the things I believe in, is that marraige is a sacrament... that when I made my vows with my wife, that I wasn't just entering into a commitment with her, but that I was also entering into a commitment with God... so, through that, I understand and believe that it is my sacred duty to remain faithful & fully committed to my wife, for one because I love her, she rocks, and why wouldn't I, but also because in doing so I remain faithful & committed to God.
I also understand that marraige is a sacrament, and like any sacrament, as the word denotes, it entails sacrafice... thus, I understand that it is not about me!
I hope that makes sense... and that I don't sound freaky... it just works for me, I like it because it allows my wife to feel safe because she knows that if she makes a mistake that I wouldn't bail on her b/c I'm committed to her in a spiritual sense through my relationship with God & the commitment I made to God.
2007-10-26 08:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by blujello 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is loves his wife unconditionally, is completely faithdul and devoted and does everything he can to help around the house and be supportive and with the kids. relationships aren't 50/50 they are 80/80 and sometimes more.
2007-10-26 08:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by Holden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOnesty is big! Someone that listens, and someone that helps you out. Wether its doing the dishes or just to ask how your day was. Someone that except you for your faults and loves you regardless.
2007-10-26 08:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by catdogpenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man who you lve and respect! If you show him those two simple things everyday he will cherish you forever!
2007-10-26 08:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by tdrammeh79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋