Marriage & Divorce - 29 October 2007

u get married n later after ur first nite is over n at dat nite u come 2 no dat ur wife is not a virgin ...wat will be ur reaction wat will u do wit ur wife will u send her home or be rude to her wat u guys will do wats the answer 4 tis guy's.... n girls answer me if u r cought in these situation....

2007-10-29 22:56:49 · 19 answers · asked by rag's rocky 1

Help me understand why this is the story of my love life? I have so many fans..dying to get my love...yet I don't want these guys. Then, crazily as it seems I fall for a guy...and he doesn't feel the same way. Why must I live in this torture when I see so many other couples who have found mutual love? I'm not a teenager...I'm a mature adult (over 30). Any views that could help me would really be appreciated. Thanks.

2007-10-29 22:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

a female friend asked me about this sex on phone or text. what can you say if she haven't met her partner in person but only photos on net profiles? and doing phone sex? i can't give my opinion for her...

2007-10-29 22:47:19 · 20 answers · asked by Angelique 4

tell me what should i do please

2007-10-29 22:45:48 · 18 answers · asked by saman s 1

2007-10-29 22:39:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-29 21:56:11 · 14 answers · asked by Heather Rai 2

2007-10-29 21:53:04 · 19 answers · asked by :-) 6

My gf has been with 16 men compared to my 7. I feel a little strange about that. Am I being overreactive? Is 7 just too little to think about settling down? Is 16 too many for a 30 yr old woman to be with? Thoughts?

2007-10-29 21:34:25 · 18 answers · asked by Michael M 1

I still love him we have been seeing alot of each other. But he is with this pig in nice turms that he hates he still love me and there is alot on this to like two kids what should i do

2007-10-29 21:21:01 · 16 answers · asked by kaylee 2

so strange my husband cheated we are getting divorce ,the thing is he has moved in with his girlfeind calling her his fiancee.he hurt me so badly,but i am moving on.our son adores him and he is so affected by his father not showing up,he calles his father and begs him to pck him up but my ex tells him he is so busy he does not even call the littel kid(5 years)??yes i envy him he has everything his soon to be bride adores him ,she gives him money and she will make him a new business..i ve known that she is like a doormate,she never complains even if he treats her like s++++ and my son adores him even when he is not arround,moved with her to a bigger house ,i think she paid the money but it is his house,ALL THE THINGS ARE TURNING IN HIS BENEFIT WHILE i work so hard in my job that surely satisfy my need and my sin s, we have small house and I AM LONELY AND AM NOT ABLE TO TRUST ANYONE

2007-10-29 21:15:05 · 11 answers · asked by mony y 2

We work different shifts so we can switch babysitting (by his choice because he wants a lot of material things), and because his mother, who has babysat her entire adult life decided she would only help her daughters out with babysitting. It is expensive, when we priced it, it would have been over $1000 a month (2 kids), but what's the point in being married when we're really not?? We see each other in passing & when we are home together, he's on the computer or watching TV. We've NEVER had a meal together as a family at the dinner table. I've voiced my concerns that I don't feel like it's a marriage, nothing changes. Should I just leave?? He refuses to go to counseling, by the way.

2007-10-29 21:08:48 · 13 answers · asked by mom of 2 3

My husband is very arregunt and he never cares about me. He wants always me to work. Even when i sitdown he doesnot prefer. He didint even bought a dress for me in the past 12 years. It is very difficult to tackle him. What can i do?

2007-10-29 20:56:23 · 15 answers · asked by kavi 1

2007-10-29 20:12:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Marriages seem to be ending before they really begin.

2007-10-29 20:04:53 · 23 answers · asked by ♥Kimchi♥ 4

My fiance is a full time community college teacher who is starting business as a psychologist and has spent any and all free time the last 2.5 years studying for his license which he passed. He has a daughter whom he dotes on every other week, buying her everything and taking her anywhere her heart desires, as well as lets her have a friend with her 24/7 except on most school nights. His ex-wife is very rude. He has a mother who is elderly and incapacitated, who he must help on a regular basis and a dog that is untrained and barks so much he can never leave him. He has a house that has been under repair the last 6 years and not finished, and has used his house for an atm so there is no equity. He has credit card debt and a brand new car with huge payments. He does not help me at my house at all, is basically too tired, and wants to be pampered. I have a big, new house, paid for everything, don't work, one son full time, (dad died), do I need this?

2007-10-29 20:03:01 · 13 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4

something smells rotten in the moral state of yahoo answers...Can anyone explain this to me?
I've read quite a few questions by women looking for guidance, because they have discovered their husbands penchant for regularly surfing for porn online. These are ALMOST UNIVERSALLY met with such answers as "This is perfectly normal and healthy" "All men do it, and don't you dare try to take your husbands porn away" "Men are visual creatures" etc, etc. These answerers generally justify pornography on the basis that there is no physical contact; and therefore is not considered to be a form of infidelity.
Yet I have also come across a few questions from women, who have caught their husbands engaging in some form of cybersex (ie: chatrooms, virtual sex, recieving emails from women containing naked pictures of them...etc) This time however, almost everyone answering is absolutely appalled and is oh-so-quick to call this type of behavior cheating, and entirely unacceptable...

2007-10-29 19:57:05 · 10 answers · asked by nene 3

Can you give me specific situations for which you fought over money to the point that you filed for divorce?

What profession are you both in?
How long did you date prior to marriage?
How old were you when you first got married?
Was this your first marriage?
How long have you been married?
Were you happily married?

Please answer title question + the 6 questions. Please be thorough with at least several sentences. Please do not post "we are still married" because the question specifically asks for divorcees that seperated over money matters.

Please share a story. Use detail freely. I got the time to listen.

Thank you for your cooperation.

2007-10-29 19:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-29 19:41:51 · 23 answers · asked by sara 4

Ok, so recently I was browsing my husbands myspace and I noticed that all of his "friends" were female. You know the type, the ones with the pics of them in skimpy bikinis, etc. Then I decided I had to snoop. All of his messages are along the lines of (from him to the skimpy dressed woman): "can you post more pics of yourself? The last ones were sexy". And, "hey sexy, what about some more pics? Do you like to flirt? feel free to flirt with me"
So I suppose I'm just asking for your general opinion of, do you think this is acceptable in a marriage? AND, am I wrong to be upset?

2007-10-29 19:40:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-29 19:23:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so how much? I am not working now because I worked for her and her ex husband as a salesperson. I thought about going back to college. But I just want to work and make money.

2007-10-29 19:18:10 · 15 answers · asked by Ty 2

Just want to see the level of importance sex is.

2007-10-29 19:09:00 · 24 answers · asked by preyta rouse 2

I do not understand the concept of annulment so I would like to have it explained to me.

1 What are the grounds for annulment?
2 How does it differ from divorce?
3 Why opt for one over the other?

Please answer as thoroughly as possible using more than sentences. Please do not answer, "I am not married so I would not know" because that would not be an answer to this question.

Please share your story. Feel free to use plenty of description. I got the time to listen.

Thank you for your cooperation.

2007-10-29 18:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had an affair for a year. I am in-love with my mistress. My wife does not believe in divorce and she wants to hang in there. She is not letting go..I can leave out of guilt & obligation; but I am in love with another. My wife says I ruined her life..what to do?

2007-10-29 18:53:07 · 33 answers · asked by R 1

My husband and I have been together for 5 years. I noticed that something has been a little different. He admitted that he prefers blondes. What a cliche

He tells me every man prefers blondes

Does that mean I am not preferred to him?

2007-10-29 18:50:27 · 26 answers · asked by azchtou 3

Goodness.

There's about 10000000000000 other languages you can speak in, why slaughter the English language?!

It's driving me crazy! lol .. am I the only one?!

2007-10-29 18:49:25 · 12 answers · asked by Queenie` 4

2007-10-29 18:34:25 · 9 answers · asked by shaneka m 1

2007-10-29 18:31:21 · 9 answers · asked by kalpeshpatel_07 1

I know it's true for me! I'm just wondering why....the sex was great when we were dating and even just living together but it's almost like a switch went off once we signed that certificate. We don't have kids yet so it's not like our lives changed a lot but I don't get it! Pun intended! What's it like for both men and women?

2007-10-29 18:12:57 · 18 answers · asked by Kat 5

My husband has all the signs of cheating.Honestly I feel too old to care and to tired to move.My opinion is karma is horrible so I am just gonna let it ride it's way out.Really dont feel like a divorce.I am a huge christian and the only reason I divorced before was my x did try to kill me.So this is like what ever to me.I would never put my soul in jeperody of the man upstairs as far as adultry.I kind of think all husbands will cheat.Givin time.He is sweet for the most part.It is not a horrible marrige and I am sick of worring myself.Do you blame me for just sticking it out?

2007-10-29 18:09:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous