u get married n later after ur first nite is over n at dat nite u come 2 no dat ur wife is not a virgin ...wat will be ur reaction wat will u do wit ur wife will u send her home or be rude to her wat u guys will do wats the answer 4 tis guy's.... n girls answer me if u r cought in these situation....
2007-10-29 22:56:49 · 19 answers · asked by rag's rocky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if she is not a virgin it is better for u as she will be experienced and can give u a good time in bed
2007-10-31 05:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, not being a virgin is no big deal these days. The important thing is whether the wife is faithful to her husband after marriage. Secondly, if virginity is such a big issue to a guy, he should make it clear before marrying a girl that he wants to marry a virgin only.
2007-10-30 07:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well dont be dumb, dear when it comes to the bridge let us cross over. It is definitely an advantage if she is not a virgin, she can teach you techniques. You can go as per her guidance since she is more experienced. If you can have fun before marriage, you can naturally expect the same from her too. But generally females dont venture on their for sex, it is all accidental or circumstance. well make sure that she is not in touch with her old circle then you are in trouble. ? User earaser to get rid of all bad experience and start afresh, tell her openly and get along
2007-10-30 01:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know we cant do anythng.but when u,the whole lifetime be virgin and wait for a virgin to be married and when we find that the wife is not virgin,then somewhere in our heart it really pains.
a virgin guy fully deserves a virgin girl.
dont u agree wid this point.nyways dont make virginity a big issue.u wil always loose.
people give strange advices but ask them how many adhere to them.so chill maar.
2007-10-30 06:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that you asked her about sex so early was a turn off to her. Insted try to look deeper into her find out her unterests, her goals in life, what she wants and epects from a relationship, what she wishes to accompish in her life, etcetera. After you two have had a chance to learn about each other, and if you find that you are both attracted to each other then, and only then bring up the subject of se, othherwse girls will think that you are shallow and cheep
2016-05-26 01:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING . The first thing is how did you know that she is not a virgin ? If she confided on you and promised to forget her past, you better be not bothered. On the other hand if by having sexual intercourse you think you can gauge a girls virginity you are wrong.
2007-10-30 04:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ashok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u want to make such a big fuss about virginity..Marriage is not all about sex..vaise if u are so much concerned,u should have asked it before hand.now try to build upon what u have, because the options that u hav e mentioned will not make ur life any easier.
2007-10-29 23:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by v j 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think du firs questun wud be were U a virgin wen u got married? If u wasnt den u r a hipocrit.
2007-10-30 02:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by nevit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she is not a virgin she should tell you before marriage that she has x number of boy friends with whom she has had sex. but 99% of girls will not disclose this kind of info. for fear of not getting married. they will only disclose after marriage if at all they ever decide to disclose. but its up to you how to deal with it. because now you have very limited options, so better to keep it in the back of you mind and get on with your life.
2007-10-30 01:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Pramod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mere bai, almost every america type desi girl is doing something out there either smoking, drinking or having sex. have fun now and more fun later on. abi si moge car. caz when your married you wont have to worry about that. dont be bad to ur wife caz of that reason.
2007-10-31 10:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by Super Fl6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋