I still love him we have been seeing alot of each other. But he is with this pig in nice turms that he hates he still love me and there is alot on this to like two kids what should i do
2007-10-29 21:21:01 · 16 answers · asked by kaylee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get real. If he hated "this pig" he wouldn't be there. After all he got away from you didn't he?
It sounds like he wants to have an affair - with you. He wants you to be the other woman. To cheat. Is that why you are no longer together? If it is remember that the next time he want to get in touch. Don't let him play you like that. If he's not happy with her, then let him leave her. But don't let him straight back into your life and your bed, or you may live to regret it AGAIN.
2007-10-29 21:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hatred for the other woman was so much clear to us when you called her 'this PIG'.
He has been separated since two years, so the PIG was holding for all these two long years with a gift of two KIDS too.
If you have really loved him, please don't disturb them.
Call her a SWAN instead.
If your ex-friend still wants you, keeping his tie-up with the SWAN, are you ready to accept?
Think over well. If you can accommodate the Swan, it is alright. You may talk to your friend. otherwise forget about him and make your future well planned.
2007-10-30 04:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by kbk_murthi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a psychologist you are exhibiting symptoms of Low Low Self Esteem and Co-Dependence Syndrome.
There is a unique attribute that only humans can possess it's called "Self-Respect".
Until you begin to get some for your kids sake if not your own, ... "Self Respect", NOT he or any other thoughtful
male will ever take you seriously!
2007-10-30 04:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you for satisfaction of his sex. He is not interested in you. You shoul not sleep with the guy. If you still love even after separation, then you are at fault. You must kick this guy out and find some other one who should respect you.
2007-10-30 04:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce, get with a support group, friends, family ect... cut all assets with him and move on.
Do not let him do this to you. If he hates the woman he is with then why hasn't he left her?
You deserve better but it's sad that you don't think so.
2007-10-30 07:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hates the pig why is he with her? your info. as a little confusing>>> who does the 2 kids belong to? if they belong to him and his other woman and he tells you that is why he stays with her, you fell for the oldest line in history. Can't really advise you unless I knew more.
2007-10-30 04:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by onyx1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are still sleeping with him??? Are you crazy? Tell him that if he loves you, then he should be with you. If he is still with her, then tell him to get his butt back to her, and leave you alone to find someone that will love and respect you. He is using you for sex, and her probably for money!!!
As long as you let him, he will continue to play this game. For your own sake, stop the game right now.
2007-10-30 04:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
l think you need to ask yourself a few questions here.You are separated,obviously your relationship was not working.You call this other girl a pig.Why?He obviously sees something in her.l think l would be moving on.Don't get used,he is playing both of you.Time to get your own life on track.
2007-10-30 04:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by Ruby Jane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he still with that pig? I don't get it. Why was he with that pig in the first place? I don't get it.
2007-10-30 04:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to resolve ur differnces or forget him.he wants to have APPLE in his both hands,He is bullying u and that PIG u mentioned.
2007-10-30 04:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by prahlad d 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋