My husband and I have been together for 5 years. I noticed that something has been a little different. He admitted that he prefers blondes. What a cliche
He tells me every man prefers blondes
Does that mean I am not preferred to him?
2007-10-29 18:50:27 · 26 answers · asked by azchtou 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what a screwed up thing to tell you. No, not all men prefer blonds, ask Carmen Electra. Some men like dark good looks, some prefer fair hair and skin. Both are fine to prefer. But you should never make someone you are with feel bad about how they are.
You should tell him you prefer millionaires and 10 inches and that all women do.
2007-10-29 18:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by that dead girl 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes men have a thing about blonds, but the way he told you was not very considerate. Also you say he has been different lately what does that mean? I don't think his actions are because he suddenly found out every man prefers blonds, you might want to check on that further. You could consider changing you hair color to see how he would accept that. I hope it all turns out well for you because you are still his wife and he comes home to you every night.
2007-10-29 19:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by K K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go buy a blond wig and walk by where you know your husband is going to be and see what he does. My sister did that to her live in boyfriend it was a Sunday morning and he was reading the paper so she went up stairs put on something sexy and a blond wig she has very mousy brown hair. She was trying her best to get his attention with no luck then she grabbed the paper when he saw her his eyes light up and he pulled her down on him and she said he was doing it to her so hard that her wig kept turning side ways when he was done she was a mess she said her wig was down in her face and all mess up . It was so funny the was she was telling the story. She told me she never put that wig on again because she got jealous over her own self. She said he wasn't doing it to me he was doing it to me as another woman a blond. Although she isn't a blond she should be because she is a ding bat but i love her.
2007-10-29 19:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He prefers blondes. Fine. Does EVERY man prefer blondes? Most definitely NOT. He married you, so obviously he preferred something about you. Sit down with him and ask him very nicely to GROW UP!
2007-10-29 19:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Linni 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not every man prefers blondes.
I prefer tall redheads, but married an average (height) blonde.
A good friend of mine prefers short brunettes, he married a tall blonde.
There's a difference between what men like to look at and think about, and who they choose to spend their time with.
2007-10-29 18:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by E. F. Hutton 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well my husband prefers browns and is always begging me to go brown instead of blonde. It seems a lot of guys like blonde hair but not all. If you have brown hair and you look nice with it consider yourself lucky. I look bad with Brown hair because it just washes me out. Anyway, It kinda bothers me my husband doesn't like me the way I am . ..
2007-10-29 18:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by lovehawaii_23 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the man. Some men like blondes, some like brunette, some like red head...and so on....
Liking is different from love. Maybe he loves you for who you are but also attracted to blondes. What he said means nothing....do not be alarmed! As long as he doesn't act on it, I think you are fine.
Married men are like dog on a leash....they can bark but they can't bite!
2007-10-29 18:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Matigas 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actually don't like blondes. He's not an a$$hole he was just having a dumb moment. Hold out on him till he does something to make up for it, at least admits that was dumb. Hair color is kind of a stupid thing anyway. As long as its a natural occurring human hair color, its immaterial to me.
2007-10-29 18:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Every guy has things that they think are hot, but that aren't in synch with their wife. My husband thinks girls with tattoos are hot but I would never get one....doesn't mean he doesn't think I'm hot!
What a guy perfers physically has very little to do with who he marries-unless he is just a shallow jerk-most guys marry someone for who they are and since he married you I would just assume that he loves you more than anyone else-even blonde girls.
2007-10-29 19:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by lovelymrsm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look, my husband thinks that blondes are gott but he likes me for me . what i did lol i died my hair blonde striks just to help him out a little . or you can buy a wig and pretend you are a blonde.
2007-10-29 19:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lovable ♥♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋