My gf has been with 16 men compared to my 7. I feel a little strange about that. Am I being overreactive? Is 7 just too little to think about settling down? Is 16 too many for a 30 yr old woman to be with? Thoughts?
2007-10-29 21:34:25 · 18 answers · asked by Michael M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The sad thing is she actually seems to be proud of it saying she has no regrets etc.
2007-10-29 22:22:20 · update #1
My gf is much more experienced than me but it does not intimidate me, use it as a way of benefitting from that experience.
2007-10-30 06:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no"too many" or "too little" people to have slept with. It makes no difference whatsoever. If you are in love then she will only be sleeping with you from now on. It is irrelevant how many people you have slept with if you are thinking of settling down. If you throw away this relationship just so you can become more experienced, then you are a fool. In short, yes, you are overreacting.
2007-10-29 21:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by clare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why I think couples should never tell their numbers....always leads to some weird reactions. When it all boils down though honey, only you can decide if the love in your heart is stronger than your desire to have a higher number. Good luck .
P.s.....16 is not too many for a 30 yr old.
2007-10-29 22:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she has had more partners does not mean that she is more experienced. Do not feel threatened and do not worry about her past partners. Leave the past where it belongs. The number of sexual partners has nothing to do with settling down. If you think you are ready then you are ready.
2007-10-29 21:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how did you know she had 16? did you ask? why? does that really matter? is there any standard number of partners one has to get laid before it entitles him to settle down? Man, the figure isn't important. That's too shallow to even think about. Past is past! You weren't in her life when she had done it. So, forget it.
2007-10-29 21:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your girl friend is more experienced than you. She has slept with 16 and you with 7. Strange equation.
2007-10-29 21:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I coul'nt tell you to the nearesr 100 how many women have been in my bed but although my wife has only had one previous lover she is much more skilled in making love than I ever will be. (She doesnt know of my previous life so keep mum) She wont read this
2007-10-29 21:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deciding to "settle down" has nothing whatsoever to do with how many sexual partners either of you have had. It has everything to do with choosing someone you love and want to be with for the rest of your lives.
2007-10-29 22:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-23 03:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have to worry if was 56 rather than 16, its no big deal. Look at it from a positive view point she can teach you how to get your technique just right so that you please her each time.
2007-10-29 21:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋