Marriage & Divorce - 2 November 2007

Since my separation, They know I have 2 kids and money is tight. They want me to go out with them drinking and have some fun, their treat. I don't drink and I have not had a beer or anything in over 2 years. I can't bring myself to go, because I feel I should pay my own way and I don't want to leave my kids to go do something like that. Since my separation, I do have full custody of my kids and I don't want to give any one any reason to think I am a bad father. Right now, every one says I am a good father and I do not want to lose that rep. What do you think? Should I take just one night a month and go hang out with them I know I would not drink. I am more comfortable ordering a coke at a bar than a beer. Plus I could be the designated dummy. What do I do? Thanks

2007-11-02 23:55:59 · 10 answers · asked by Bones 5

2007-11-02 23:52:00 · 13 answers · asked by amit a 1

I was married to a guy for 2 yrs. I really believe he has Narsassistic Personality disorder. I am probably spelling it wrong, but the DSM IV says if he has 5 out of 9 of the traits he has it, he has 9/9. Our marriage is over now, I am filing for divorce, but what all if anything did anyone of you go through with someone with this disorder. How do you deal with someoen who is completely in love with themselves?

2007-11-02 23:22:30 · 7 answers · asked by Confused4life 2

My husband is constantly telling me I'm a bad mom with unhealthy habits because I choose to stay up late after the kids go to bed. On the weekend they will try to stay up sometimes, but never past 10:00PM. My husband's work schedule is 5:00am to Noon, with 2 weekdays off and I work 8:00am to 5:00pm Monday-Friday. I always try to respect his need to sleep and keep thing quiet, but he is convinced This makes me a "tweeker" and claims I do not care about being with him. He thinks if I don't go to bed when he does means I don't care about him or "want him". Is it so terrible to enjoy a little time at night to read or just be alone? With 4 children and a full time job I really feel this is the only time I can have to myself. When we get home at night I'm very busy with homework, dinner, etc. I don't really wind down until late. Is there something wrong with staying up after everyone else is asleep? What makes this such an "unhealthy lifestyle" as he puts it?

2007-11-02 22:00:07 · 16 answers · asked by melissa b 1

This girl got her zipper stuck and she was in the bathroom. She called her boyfriend to unzip it to make it go up. Now, as he went in her little brother slammed the door and locked the key from the outside. From then on the couple knew they were meant for one another... Yes, they got married in the bathroom.

2007-11-02 20:53:50 · 8 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

I have been married 2 months and discovered my husband has emailed a prostitute to arrange a meeting.

This comes at the end of a week when he's downloaded a gig of porn and spent a lot of time on various adult sites.

It's escalated to this correspondence, despite us having sex several times over the course of the week. Obviously it didn't ring his bells despite the fact that he does love me.

Early in our relationship we'd tackled similar issues through a councellor but now it back and he's kept all this a secret.

Any suggestions on where I go from here?

2007-11-02 19:37:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

his sisters like me......

2007-11-02 19:30:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-02 19:10:01 · 7 answers · asked by Sandra 3

hi i need advise. my sister meet this man and her husband is good to her in every way even sexual she told me that much . about her personal life with him and they have children . to she mee this well man and only knew him for about a week and it happened she had sex with him . now she.s scared her husband will find out . about it i tried telling her not to do what happened but to late onn that he.s te man she meet. was around.19. she.s in her later .40. s but dont look her age i told hr he was only using her.. this man she meet. she.s scared now that it will be out to all as what she did . and many will make fun of her. but probley they will due to age difference can she get into trouble over what she did this she asked me i didnt know how to answer her please help if any know.s how i can tell her thank.s a lot. linda..

2007-11-02 18:59:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

where can i find information on what's the minimun age to marry someone on the state by state basis?

2007-11-02 18:59:11 · 8 answers · asked by needles_uncivilized 2

Now that I'm at Level 2 in Yahoo Answers?

2007-11-02 18:45:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he was in holliday unit in huntisville tx and went in front of the parole board in august has not herd from them yet his release date is oct of 2008 we thought we might here from the parole board in november but he got transfered to a state jail in beaumont tx is there any chance he will get parole or will he go infront of the parole again and y did they move him if he got less then a year left or do u know a website i can go to to look up any info please this is hard we have 2 young boys and i was looking forward to him being home for the hollidays PLEASE help

2007-11-02 17:48:12 · 13 answers · asked by lil_mamas_sk 2

2007-11-02 17:11:18 · 31 answers · asked by Alanandmelody 4

she cheated on him, then divorced him and married one of the men she cheated with. she gets mad cause her ex and his new fiance come to visit us.

2007-11-02 17:10:07 · 21 answers · asked by mum 2

I have 2 friends (Matt and Lisa) who recently got married. They really love each other, but they both have volatile tempers. Well, one day they were driving down the street and Lisa was driving. Matt stuck his hand out the window and his ring fell off. He told Lisa to stop the car and turn around. She asked why and he told her my ring went out the window. She got pissed off about it and threw her own ring out the window, saying if he didn't care about their vows then she didn't either.

Does this seem like a normal, lasting relationship to you?

I thought it was very strange, and do you have any advice I could pass along to my friend Lisa? Besides the obvious, stop losing your temper so easily. I've told her that.

2007-11-02 16:10:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just want to know because its football season and the pickens are slim.

2007-11-02 16:07:42 · 10 answers · asked by ################################ 2

I am well qualified and well placed professional with business degree. Since long, I have interest in housework and quite expert in it.

Now I wish to quit the job and be a househusband to an ambitious, career oriented professional girl while assuming the role of housemaker. The women are capturing the place in almost every field and proving their worth. Having a househsband will provide the opportunity to focus and devote more time on their job and prove their worth.

This way I will be able to fulfill my desire and also I will be a good support to my wife. She can be free from any household works and raising kids because that will be taken care by me and she can concentrate on her career. I can also add value as a advisor for her professional problems.

Will the girls accept me as a househusband?
Interested girls may express in their reply or can also contact me provately through emails. I am 32 years old.

2007-11-02 15:49:18 · 11 answers · asked by shiava02 4

my husband did cocaine and also confesed to me then after a few weeks we went for a blood test as he promised he will not do it an more his reports were negative for coke but he had mervana n it is such a drug that stinks i want to know how is it is it possible that he slept with some one and she had done it or wht is the reason and the same night he told me to bring another test kit from a dru store as he said how can that be when i have not done it wht i did n left that is neative and wht i have not done that comes in my blood freinds say mabe he went to some one and she must have done it and that is the reason he showed it as positive in his test i feel that is it true or just m dought plz if some one knows anything and have ever dealed with such pro plz help he also is not doin it know but how can i keep a check on him without his knowledge

2007-11-02 15:41:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-02 15:01:42 · 13 answers · asked by j48harris 2

Hi there. I'm asking this question out of curiosity mostly. My fiance and I have been engaged for almost a year. Technically we've set a date, for 2009. We were planning on saving roughly between 5,000 and 10,000. Did you save money before you got married? What assets did you have to bring into your marriage? And How old were you when you got married? And if you don't mind telling, how many years have you been married? Please feel free to share any advice or if you just want to share your story.

Thank you for your answers. Have a wonderful day. And best of luck to you and your spouse.

2007-11-02 14:56:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are signs that a guy is ready to settle down and get married?

2007-11-02 14:39:50 · 6 answers · asked by twina246 2

sometimes I want to leave my husband. I don't like his family and through out this pregnancy I have realized how selfish he is. I am 8 months pregnant and just got put on bed rest because my bp went from 112/50-140/80 in ONE WEEK! I'll tell you why, his freeloading uncle just moved in my son's room and is making me sick. My husband also hasn't told him to move out even though it's his ghetto uncle, I had to be the biatch and say you have one week...He still hasn't looked for a place, and I will call the police if he isn't gone by next Wed. So, I'm on bed rest and my husband wont even help, he even said, you don't need bed rest...!! I am on bed rest for one night and my house looked like a tornado, I had to wash the dishes just to eat, cuz his uncle just dirtied up everything and thinks I should clean his mess...I just think after my son is born that I don't think I can do this...Give me advice please...?

Also, I can't move home w/ my parents cause they live in another state

2007-11-02 13:55:03 · 12 answers · asked by elle 3

During our half year dating, he said he wanted a life with me but also tried to meet other girls from internet. I broke up with him immediately and he felt aweful. He didnt aske me to take him back but he said he was sincerely commited to our relationship, but bcos of the problem of our relationship he was still looking, he was very sorry for what he did and he said he loves me.
I think he is a liar and a player, so I told him Im pregnant and I want him to know whats like to be lied to.
Out of my expectation, he said he would be completely involved if I decide to keep the baby, he also wants to give it another shot for our relationship(he isnt against abortion). He said even our relationship has problems, he thinks its gonna work out. and he will be there as much as I want him.
Now I feel very guilty, I didnt expect him to act like that, b4 he told me he doesnt want a baby now. when I asked him, he said theres a difference between not wanting a baby and wanting to give one up.

2007-11-02 13:49:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-02 13:30:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this may sound wierd but we sort of have unusual relationship. I love my wife. We have little problems and occasional fights like normal people do but overall, I have to say we have pretty happy lives.
Since we had our son 5 years ago, she we started having sex less and less. But we've been doing it less and less. Now I'm lucky if I get it once a month.
My wife simply says she's not really into it. We still spend alot of time together but come bed time, she goes straight to bed.
I myself am different. I love sex. Before I was married, I was a bit of a player. I remember at one time I was having sex 3 or 4 times a day and often averaging 5 to 9 time a night. Even when we were married, we had sex everyday. No longer the case.
now, knowing how fraustrated I am, she insists i go out and find a girl friend. She mentions it to me regularly. Honest, I thought about it but I couldn't because I still love my wife and wouldn't feel right.
Any advice?

2007-11-02 13:18:38 · 37 answers · asked by Traveler 5

A good friend of mine(17 years old) is concidering running away from home. His girlefriend (16 years old) is also concidering running away with him. The only thing stopping them is whether or not its legal or illegal to run away at 17 and 16 in Ontario, Canada... help is needed, and time is of the essence.

2007-11-02 13:10:43 · 6 answers · asked by Donald D 1

I do not believe in divorce, but I just am so close to ending our 3 yr old marriage. My hubby is always preoccupied with something else. I go to outings by my self because he does not want to go. He doesn't like to talk over our issues. He has a child from a previous marriage and when he comes over he ignores me more. he doesn't include me in some matters...I just want out but I do not want to be selfish because we have a 2 yr old son. I am energetic. I work out 4 times a week and I have a lot of energy and he does too but he uses it on other things( I guess)!!! Should I work at it??

2007-11-02 13:10:10 · 18 answers · asked by metalwife 3

2007-11-02 12:35:42 · 10 answers · asked by M Malcolm 2

We were a bit drunk when they were taken & she has all the digital photos with her. She said I have to stay for 6 months before she'll hand them back to me. What should I do?

2007-11-02 12:30:38 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

the way i see domestic volence is ex: a slap in the face or pulling sombody's hair and says your not leaving me or picking on sombody and pushing them to the floor unwated visits without calling name calling ex: ***** asshole mfer and beating a guy or girl down that's how i see domestic volence don't u agree?

2007-11-02 12:27:53 · 16 answers · asked by trex200485 1