my husband did cocaine and also confesed to me then after a few weeks we went for a blood test as he promised he will not do it an more his reports were negative for coke but he had mervana n it is such a drug that stinks i want to know how is it is it possible that he slept with some one and she had done it or wht is the reason and the same night he told me to bring another test kit from a dru store as he said how can that be when i have not done it wht i did n left that is neative and wht i have not done that comes in my blood freinds say mabe he went to some one and she must have done it and that is the reason he showed it as positive in his test i feel that is it true or just m dought plz if some one knows anything and have ever dealed with such pro plz help he also is not doin it know but how can i keep a check on him without his knowledge
2007-11-02 15:41:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok, let me tell you as a Nurse, the ONLY way a drug gets in you is you do that drug
your husband did drugs
its in his system
sex wont do that...
HE DID THAT DRUG
ok?
2007-11-02 15:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but I'm going to be honest when I say you are being really gullible if you believe what your husband is telling you. The only way a drug will get into our bloodstream is through oral digestion (meaning he at some funny brownies at lunch) or through smoking it (Inhale, exhale) He tested negative on the cocaine because he didn't really do cocaine, he smoked marijuana with whom ever he was sleeping with. And why would you even seek to find the truth about such a situation as this if you already know the answer? I know your not that blinded by love to not have the ability to tell if he's lying to you or not. Why would you want to be married to someone like that?
2007-11-02 16:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by Deity of Peace 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way a drug test shows up positive is if the person took the drug themselves........i am concerned for u for two reasons......1) the drug test is right, and he lying about doing the drug .. and ... 2) If you think your husbands test was positive b/c he slept with someone else.....well, u can't have drugs in your system by having sex with someone and also, if he had sex with someone else, you shouldn't be tolerating that.
You deserve better hunny! Drugs can be a huge problem, and your best bet is to get away......your better than that!
2007-11-02 15:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, what the heck is marvana? Am I out of the loop with new slang terms for drugs? I guess that is possible considering I am anti-drugs, but I have never heard the word marvana.
A person WILL NOT test + for a drug just because they slept with a person who did that drug. Don't listen to your friends. That is absurd. If they are saying that he is cheating with someone who does this drug & maybe he did it w/her then that makes sense. The only way he is going to test + for a drug is for that drug to be in his system & for that drug to be in his system then he had to have done the drug. Period, end of story!
You can't really keep a check on him without his knowledge. Unless he is with you 24/7 he has the opportunity to do drugs. Give him an ultimatum....DO DRUGS & LOSE ME....DON"T DO DRUGS & BE HAPPY WITH ME! It is just that simple.
2007-11-02 15:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its very hard to understand your question when the entire paragraph is one long sentence. Are you high? Has he tested your blood? Why are you looking for excuses and reasons as to why he tested positive for drugs (of any sort)? Grow up and get a clue!!!
2007-11-02 15:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by shellese2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call me stupid but are you talking about marijuana? I have no idea what mervana is and it took several tries to read this. It was all one sentence and I could not understand the spelling. Anyway, if they found it in his system he is doing it. You cannot have sex with someone and have the drug they used show up in your system. Please don't be so naive...he is doing drugs.
2007-11-02 16:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by dresh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK there is a spell check if you are unsure how a word is spelled. your question was very hard to read. i had to read it several times before i could understand what you were asking.. now for my answer.. I have heard but not confirmed that eating poppy seeds like the ones on muffins can give you a false positive for marijuana..
2007-11-02 15:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are meaning marijuana by your word marvana, he's still doing it or at least hanging out with others that are doing it and he's getting the second hand smoke of it....
p.s. you have a whole keyboard, use it wisely - quit trying to write out a whole paragraph like your texting ur bff...geezz that was difficult to read.
2007-11-02 16:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by villazar701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible he got a defective test. I know that the are not 100 percent even they admit that. I dont think he could get it from another woman if he didnt do it.That just sounds like your freinds are really ignorant. I mean think about it?
2007-11-02 15:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's in his system because he took it. Face it, your husband is a druggie.
2007-11-02 15:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋