2007-11-02 17:11:18 · 31 answers · asked by Alanandmelody 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what would be the point? To embarrass him?
2007-11-02 17:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Stache Man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should you talk to your husband's brother about him masterbating? Um, does it sound like a crazy question when you read it back to yourself?
On a serious note, how old is he? Most likely you could save the dude some serious embarrassment and let your husband speak to him about it or just ignore it. Men, especially teens are gonna do it. Just have your hubby talk to him about making sure doors are firmly closed and dont go walking in unannounced. Good luck.
2007-11-03 00:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by angelwithadvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. the only reason i can think to even bring it up is if was intentional as far as where u were concerned knowing u would see, or possibly if it was in an open area of the house and possibly one of your children could of walked in on the situation instead of you, but even then i wouldnt talk to him, id tell my husband about it, and have my husband talk to him if it was a serious issue, if it was just a "bad timing" inncident, and no real harm was done or could be done then just leave it alone , it happens....
2007-11-03 00:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason to talk to him about it would be if he was doing it in a place that wasn't private, like your living room. Otherwise, there's really no need to bring it up and it's best to just pretend you never saw it. It doesn't matter how old the guy is, teenagers and adults do masturbate. Totally normal if done in a private area of the home. Learn to knock next time!
2007-11-03 00:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by some female 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, he obviously needs to be more aware of who's around when he's having his "private time". I think it would be very weird to have a conversation with him about it. Maybe you could talk to your husband about it. I'm assuming you are all adults?!? If he is younger, a teenager, and he looks at you more as a mother role, then you could just make a generalized statement about making sure to respect everyone's privacy. What a shocker that must have been...LOL
2007-11-03 00:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is his brother...
If old enough to.. I would not if he was someplace trying to have privacy. Just make sure you are oud next time you think he is partaking if he is somewhere that is less private. If it continues to be a problem then I would confront him. Then it would be something more disturbing. Just catching him in the act seems by chance and not an issue
2007-11-03 00:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband's cousin lived with us a short time. I walked into the living room late one night on my way to the kitchen there he was masturbating. I wouldn't have even noticed if he hadn't of moved so fast to cover himself. I turned around and went back to bed. I told my husband to talk to him. Only to tell him that if he wants to masturbate to do it in the privacy of his own room or bathroom with the door closed.
2007-11-03 00:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it in your living room? or was he where he thought it was private?
Telling someone not to masturbate is like saying don't breath. But I guess if he was in a open area maybe you should say something, not sure how you bring something like that up though.
Hey Bob seen you stroke it yesterday Mind if you do it in the bathroom or something, where I don't run into you.
2007-11-03 00:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by tannum2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you going to say? If he is older than 12 just tell your husband to tell him to make sure he does it in the privacy of the bathroom or behind closed doors.
2007-11-03 00:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm... Was he doing it in what he thought was a private place? Was he using some of your things? If the answers to those questions are 'yes' and 'no', repsectively, I'd say drop it. Now, if you woke up and found him doing it next to your bed, or he was wearing your panties, or he was standing in a window ogling a sunbathing neighbor.....
2007-11-03 00:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoukd talk to your husband about it cause it would be more easier for them too to have a man to man talk that a women to man. Your husbands brother might not feel comfortable talking about that situation with you
2007-11-03 00:15:47 · answer #11 · answered by babyblue50000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋