Has or Was anyone married to someone with Narsassistic Personality Disorder,where they think they are the best

Question

I was married to a guy for 2 yrs. I really believe he has Narsassistic Personality disorder. I am probably spelling it wrong, but the DSM IV says if he has 5 out of 9 of the traits he has it, he has 9/9. Our marriage is over now, I am filing for divorce, but what all if anything did anyone of you go through with someone with this disorder. How do you deal with someoen who is completely in love with themselves?

Answer 1

I was also married to a guy who was 9/9. Bear in mind that most narcissists are sociopaths as well and potentially dangerous. That is because they can't believe someone would actually leave them! My ex would do everything to break up any relationship I had after him - even though he always had a woman. You cannot deal with them; they are dangerous. Move on and just be careful. ALSO, read SMILEYONE's answer. SHE is so right on about the narcissists. I felt like I had written what she wrote. Get away from him and have as little contact as possible!!

Answer 2

Yes........................!!!

I was married to a Narcissist for 12 years, during the last 5-6 it/he become worse!
They truly believe they are god's gift to the world, and some more.
My Narcissist x has given me helll for the 4 years since we separated, he lied in court, on court affidavits, gave a great acting scene, and is the most manipulative, self centered, selfish human i have ever come in contact with in my entire life.
I have many words of advice for you...Document everything, do not have ANY contact, don't be fooled by him and his Mr Nice guy acts, he only wants something, and then will use it against you.
There is an MSN support group for Narcissist Personality Disorder, its been a life saver for me, it may help you to know how to deal with this.

Answer 3

Ever heard of bipolar disease? Aka manic depressive? Check the symptoms. If you and he have had children..know now that the earlier such chemical disorders are noticed and treated..the better the chance at a normal life a child will have.

Answer 4

You dont, they have all the love that they need inside their heads. I dont know that I know of anyone that I have been with (although some came close). It does kinda suck when there is nothing that you can do because they love themselves too much and have none for you. Good luck!

Answer 5

sure, you have too lots happening in there. you have fragile vanity and subsequently you positioned human beings down and additionally low self-worth is why you have an exaggerated opinion of your self. i used to be that way myself so i delivers you some first hand advice. See a counselor and communicate over those emotions. you're able to desire to discover a healthful thank you to handle them till now they start up harming your wellness and wellbeing. there is different analyze available which helps this. out of control thoughts could reason numerous harm fantastically vanity appropriate ones. I had different wellness issues popping out of my OCD and self-absorbed thoughts. this is solid to have massive desires, be desirable and additionally this is substantial to be lifelike approximately your self. this variety of exaggerated effect of your self can mask your actual abilities and emotions. the greater advantageous you're in touch jointly with your actual emotions the greater advantageous off you're able to have the potential to realize your desires. I see some actual symptoms and symptoms on your description. putting human beings down and reducing your self. once you truly LOVE your self from the interior, you do no longer could desire to positioned others down and you do no longer injury your self...ever. Love your self from the interior out. meaning accepting your self. you will see how each and every of something (consisting of your desires) would be lots greater handy to realize.

Answer 6

i feel sorry for u. never bn married b4 so cant tell u anything unfortunately

Answer 7

Yeah, it's narcissistic.