hi i need advise. my sister meet this man and her husband is good to her in every way even sexual she told me that much . about her personal life with him and they have children . to she mee this well man and only knew him for about a week and it happened she had sex with him . now she.s scared her husband will find out . about it i tried telling her not to do what happened but to late onn that he.s te man she meet. was around.19. she.s in her later .40. s but dont look her age i told hr he was only using her.. this man she meet. she.s scared now that it will be out to all as what she did . and many will make fun of her. but probley they will due to age difference can she get into trouble over what she did this she asked me i didnt know how to answer her please help if any know.s how i can tell her thank.s a lot. linda..
2007-11-02 18:59:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she gave him something that i wont name but is against the law . that.s wasnt her.s to give it was from a .dr. that belonged to her husband .
2007-11-02 19:02:41 · update #1
from what i read . yes she can get into trouble for giving something that wasnt her.s to give away yiou stated.dr. that means medication. and that a felony on them both it.s law. and fact seem.s your sister ought to thought about that before she did it and yes he can divorce her on the grounds of adultry. and mental angish. . my opion?
2007-11-02 19:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man she met was a slime-ball. If I was your sister's brother I would tell her husband straight away. Reason being, your sister may or may not have been getting the slime-ball to use a condom, if that's the case there is also a very bad possibility the slime-ball was carrying a nasty disease (which your sister would have definitely caught).
Besides, your sister's husband has a right to know and a very good right to be angry. But he should never hit or harm your sister. From your spelling and the way you are talking it sounds like you could be a Muslim or from a similar culture that treats this sort of thing very seriously. If that's the case take your sister to a doctor and get her checked out, this is very important, then get your sister as far away from her husband as you can. If it turns out your sister was infected then your sister's husband must be told, but there is a good chance he will not be infected (unless its something like herpes, then he is stuffed).
2007-11-03 02:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kryten M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all its long question more over..when you wanted to know our opinions or advice....WHY don't write whatever you want in full form....I am sure most (99%) of us didnt understand your question.
2007-11-03 07:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋