Marriage & Divorce - 4 November 2007

What do you think of someone that does not even ask if you are ok?

2007-11-04 23:45:32 · 22 answers · asked by AnnieG 4

Do married people live longer than single ones or does it only seem
longer?

2007-11-04 23:35:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are still legally married.He won't cooperate about me getting my things and my portion of household items. What can I do?

2007-11-04 23:04:43 · 9 answers · asked by mstjohns 1

some men think that is the answer to a womans problem... "you need to get laid" is their answer. Have we as men become this shallow? Do women ever get tired of seeing women portrayed as sex objects?

2007-11-04 22:51:36 · 10 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

i was in a 7 year relationship. we broke up. =(..it's been 5 months without any contact! i even changed my cell number. because i wasnt ready to speak to him.
they say time heals a broken heart. but, i feel at times i miss him dearly, at times i hate him. at times i love him. but, i try not to cry. i can honestly say that, i can feel myself heal but i still love him. its strange! i cant help but think if he thinks of me or what. i was with him forever and we had a bond. a bond of friendship. . i cant explain it . i dont even know what my question is.

2007-11-04 22:37:22 · 35 answers · asked by 1212 2

I had a boy friend earlier and we got engaged in college without parental approval. We had consumated our relationship as well. But later, we felt it was better to split and keep our families happy. We've moved on. We have got jobs in different cities and are deeply invloved in them. But somewhere we still feel for each other.

Since my parents never knew this, They still think their daughter is never engaged. They've zeroed in on a guy for me. I had nothing to lose and said yes. Now this guy is madly in love with me and cant wait to get engaged to married. Late nite calls, romantic mails and sms, this guy is totally on.

Honestly I dont feel the marrraige will last longer than a year. What do u think?

2007-11-04 21:47:37 · 20 answers · asked by sweet2010 2

2007-11-04 21:43:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife took my 1 yr daughter back to North CA about 4 mons ago. She told me that she wanted to get her college degree to make more money so we can move out from my parents's place. SHe got no privacy, I understand but I want to live with my parents to help them because my younger sister will get married and who's going to take care of my parents? She's a great wife, never ask for anything but to have our own family is her only wish. My parents and sisters are working. I gave them money to buy this mobile home, bought my dad's car, bought my sister lots of expensive gifts but i still don't think it's enough. My mom told me "It's your turn to take care of us, I've brought you to this world, if you follow her we'll disown u. I hate her for took my grandaughter away, break up with her." I broke up wit my wife and now she's 6 mons pregnant. She's all depressed but I don't know what to do. I even told her I don't care and I flirted with other girls.

2007-11-04 20:08:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

get help if i run towards opportunities for more cheating?

I think i should stop but that's my head (guilt) and i keep listening to my body. i have never been so rock hard as when i come home and get the odd bit of sex from the wife, just knowing i have had "others" and will have more makes me feel alive.

maybe i shouldn't help myself?

2007-11-04 19:55:11 · 39 answers · asked by Evil Starsky 1

My wife of six years has turned into this lazy selfish woman and I dont know what other ave. I should go down. I've tried everything from counseling to giving in and nothing seems to work. We both work 40hr. work weeks and have four kids. She works in the evenings and I work from 4 am to 1230. I do all of the cooking, cleaning, and taking care of our kids. She thankfully puts our kids on the bus in the morning goes back to sleep and then works from 2-10p. I stay up every night for her till 11p and all she does is get on computer and plays video games most of the time. Other times she does school work online but 85% of time she plays games and doesnt seem to care about anything else and expects me to tip toe around her becasue she has it so hard with work and school! Then as if cooking and cleaning isnt enough she has the gull to complain about anything that doesnt go her way and starts fights. She blows money on stupid stuff like shoes when kids need cloths. What do you think? Is it me

2007-11-04 19:28:25 · 20 answers · asked by waltdawg3 3

Did you marry an american? Was is for love, visa, and/or financial support? Are they white, black, or other?

2007-11-04 19:27:40 · 3 answers · asked by Brian 3

I feel so bad. I can't concentrate on my work. Recently i found out that my husband has been dishonest with me. How can i move on? My husband is a very nice man. I really can't believe he did it. Please help me.

2007-11-04 19:23:21 · 15 answers · asked by mavic 1

2007-11-04 18:42:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 18:25:13 · 2 answers · asked by desperate1 1

Gone back with your wife after she left for a year? Dropped everything, said she needed to think about our life/marriage together and buggered off. Went to europe to visit friends. No contact except when she came back ranting and raving about old bills that needed taking care of, harrassing me at work, moving in almost next door to me (i had moved out of our old place that we shared together when she left and into my own). The way she threw herself back at me when she came back makes me think she saw the grass is not greener on the other side and wants my love and trust again. Is it possible that shes sincere, or is she wanting something else?

2007-11-04 18:23:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's the deal? I know some at work that flirt all the time with coworkers!

2007-11-04 18:23:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was very happley married but something happened that really.wasnt. my fault. i was sent to a place and this married woman kept bothering me all the time. calling and comming on to me .every chance she got this hick didnt know she was only making a *** of her self and always calling me to come up and talk to her and i really couldnt really stand this trailer park trash but i was only.19. she was in her.40.s and married well she was easy . it happened in her home while her man and kids was gone . yes we had sex there but she ws the one who was wanting to do it more than me those streach marks was sicking . now after. 5. years my wife found out and left me over this trash . why does a married woman tell this and cause other.s problems like she has caused me where she ruined her marrage why ruin mine after all she was more at fault doing what she did so why ruin another.s marrage when she was that silly to let it come to light and ruin mine it.s isnt right for a hillybillie trash to do

2007-11-04 18:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by matthew v 3

This married man I know flirts with beautiful women at his work including me, even call some of them his girlfriends, but he said his wife cannot flirt with other men. He said only the man can cheat and flirt and do what he wants, but not his wife. Why does he think that way ? I've never met a married man that think this way.

2007-11-04 18:19:49 · 8 answers · asked by . 1

Considering the fact that he went to GA on a little semi-vacation before deploying to Cuba. He went there to visit family considering we live in KS and his family are in GA. And the reason he went to GA for vacation is because he was getting ready to leave for Cuba-his a Army Soldier-but when I go to visit him, there are a few girls phone numbers in his phone and of course I ask him about the ones I do not recognize and he says that its nothing....and I just let it go. So he gets to CUba and I need a cell phone and he sends me his and then I get calls and text mess. from this girl and I get some info out of her and basically they went out on two dates and they talked on the phone quite a bit ( I have cell phone bills to prove it) and I asked him about it and he denies the dates but he does not deny getting her number and the reason is only so his friend could get with that girls friend! But I am not so sure about this, yes I guess its all written out for me...but my instincts are not

2007-11-04 17:33:12 · 29 answers · asked by Aquisha M 1

I am having really a hard time thinking whether its worth leaving my husband for someone whos really alot better in a sense that this someone seems to be the guy I could really see my self spending the rest of my life with.. Since I have kids.. I want advice whether I should go for someone that can makes me happier or I'll just stick to my husband because of my kids?

2007-11-04 17:27:34 · 6 answers · asked by zelda z 1

2007-11-04 17:17:00 · 11 answers · asked by francisco g 1

I am tired of my husband never paying any attention to the kids and myself too, he is always playing online games or ebay well besides that he works graveyard and is always sleeping too. I have talked to him a few times but he never changes. i have three kids should i move on or is it worth it me staying another 5 years and not ever be happy?

2007-11-04 16:59:21 · 19 answers · asked by jessica c 1

Agree or disagree? WHY?

2007-11-04 16:51:42 · 5 answers · asked by Loving Love 1

My husband has been having an affair for the past 2 1/2 years. He has said she is a mistake and has gone back and forth between wanting to be with her or me. They have lived together for the past year.

We have been having sex for the past month and he said he wanted to come home again. Long story short, I went to his apartment and he had not yet begun packing. She was there crying and the 3 of us ended up packing up his stuff.

He could not tell her how he feels. He tells me he loves me, but couldn't tell her why he wanted to come home. He always said "I'm going home. I can't live this way any more". He did say that he doesn't have feelings for anyone right now. But he says he will not contact her again, that he can't.

His name is on the lease and he offered to let her take over the lease. He even offered to pay 1/2 the rent for the next 2 months.

Is it really over for them this time? I think she will try to contact him.

2007-11-04 16:42:28 · 34 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

If your marriage was on the rocks and you truly didn't do anything wrong, would you stay in the marriage and just live somewhere else and never truly get divorced because you were scared that your wife would take you to the cleaners?

If not, Would you stay if she threatened to take you to the cleaners?

2007-11-04 16:37:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I enjoy sex, but would like for it to be more than just straight to it, if you know what I mean. Seems he only kisses me when I kiss him. My Aunt use to like the song about liking a man with a slow hand. I didn't understand the song at the time, but now I do. I just would like some real lovemaking instead of just sex. Am I asking for too much?

2007-11-04 16:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by Christina 1

2007-11-04 16:11:51 · 8 answers · asked by ledisxo 3

My boyfriend and I really do love each other but I don't think he knows that I want children in the near future. We've talked about having children and we both want them. However I'm not ready yet and I want to tell him that I don't want to wait till I'm over 30 to start. How do I bring up the topic of children without him freaking out and thinking I want one now?!

2007-11-04 16:10:11 · 10 answers · asked by Super-Pop 1

my spouse left and took our kids to a different state and she wants to get a seperation and i fell that we can work out our problems if we just sit down and talk, even if it is with a counselor. but she thinks it would be pointless

2007-11-04 16:09:28 · 9 answers · asked by ike_humphries 1

the man i love tell me he watch me for over 3years before we got together,what do you think about this.

2007-11-04 16:08:01 · 11 answers · asked by Janet H 1