does being in love always end up destroying a student's career?

Answer 1

No. My husband and I met when I had just started college, he was in the military and the only way for us to be together was to get married at the time, so we did and we are still together today. I am two years away from completing my Masters degree in English and Literature and he is out of the military about to get his Bachelor degree in Advertising.

Being stupid and in love will however destroy a student's career. So don't be stupid, and do something like get knocked up or go on a vacation together instead of paying your tuition. Pay attention to the tiny things.

Answer 2

It's true and not true. There are failures and success in love. It depends on how both of think of it. If the love is a caring and forgiving love then surely it would lead to success. There other factors that make a love a unsuccessful one
~Building a wall
Let your Partner in. If you have a wall up, it hides things and creates a suspicious feeling from your partner. Avoid the suspicious behaviour and be an open book. The more open you are, the more trust you can build.

~No open communication
Make time for Communication. Communication can create a safe and comfortable feeling in your relationship. The more communication and feelings of safety, the more the trust can build. So the less it disturbs a person.

~Less trust
If the trust is low and one does not understand the of other then i would be a depressive love. There is no room for progress.


Being on the goal and doing the opposite of the above factors can surely lead a success in a student career.

Answer 3

No, love gives you the extra energy to carry on with your study without diverting your attention. At the same time both the lovers should try their max not to indulge in any thing that would take away each others peice and put them in trouble.
You know if any one of them diverts here or there then the situation just starts takeing the turn. You have to plan your day to day routine and strictly follow the schedules.
Just dont waste much time in chatting,(he told me like this , she told me like that and all **** and bull stories should be avoided)
Try to get engrosed in each other with love, at the same time give your full attention to wards the studies and building the future career.

Answer 4

Not necessarily... it depends on the person.
Sometimes people fall in love and forget everything else in life and just haunt their romantic dreams. They forget about studies, family and work and just live for the person they have fallen in love with... This is a very insane behaviour, as it’s not love but obsession and obviously doesn’t lead to nowhere, as nobody wants an obsessed person to be your partner.
But falling being in love with a partner, who does support you, encourage you and help you with your daily life is a great benefit for you.
A real partnership, where both partners honestly support each other will give you the power and inner peace to concentrate even more in your studies and your career, as you know that there is somebody there to support you unconditionally.
It depends on you.

Answer 5

possibility is there.

Because Love diverts our mind from studies to those relationships. We cannot concentrate on studies, cannot achieve our aim etc.

If your love came after you become adult, then no problem. Because that is the right age to have life partner.

During our school / collage time, our mind will not study and it is not a time to take such serious decisions. If we take a wrong step, it will effect through our our life and keep in mind such mistakes cannot be correctable.

In such age, whatever we see, we like to have it. Similarly with life partner. If you see one guy, he looks very smart and you feel like you love him. After some days, if you came to know that he is not good in nature and behaviour and if you have not seen him for some days and meanwhile you got contact with other smart guy, in such case also our mind will divert and we think to have him.

Hence please think carefully and take decisions. Better to avoid taking decisions about Love at school / college days.

Answer 6

Of course not. Be responsible and think things through, if you neglect your studies, you will end up in deep shait. Not good for your relationship either, huh.

You don't have to do the thing you'd most like doing all the time. If everyone was like that, most of the people would neglect their work and studies.

Answer 7

no.if u can balance it wont. bt this is the time wen u cn make ur career. u cant get this time again. as a student u shud concentrate only on ur study. If u've a bright career u cn hv everything...
so do concentrate in ur study.

Answer 8

romantic realtions or anything extraneous affects studies and thus adversely affects a student though it may not always destroy the career totally.

Answer 9

yes, my girl friend went to school and was juggling a job living at home w/her mother (she's 22) and now that she moved in she doesnt work or go to school. Which I still dont no why. So the answer is yes if your LAZY.

Answer 10

hey,
yes ur rite am experience. u keep thinkin abt tat person only if ur really in love with tat person and u really cant concentrate o ur work am damn sure soooooooo and also once u break with tat person u keep thinkin abt her and neva can let another person into u rself only if ur weak hearted.hav luck nyways hav ur own thought tooooo bhbye